Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Not Enough sleep for Jovian & Mummy
Dunno what happen to her, she wake up in the middle of the night at around 2.45am, so I go to make some FM for her to drink. Jovian only drink 70ml (she sick for 1 week, so she drink not much milk, but she will eat porriage) and I put her to sleep. She will turn here and there, she sleep for awhile, wake up and cry very loud, so i put some baby powder for her as her back is full of rashes due to hot weather.... (I think her rashes is very pain and hot). After that put her to sleep again, but still the same, she wake up suddenly and cry, so i put some more powder on her, trying to put her to bed but she don't want....
I bring her to the living room, on the fan and put her lay on top of my stomach, at first, she cry, den after awhile she fall asleep..... (my fat stomach is like her pillow, hehe...). I let her sleep for about 30 mins and bring her back to her cot, it about 5.30am. I decided to rest for 15mins as I need to wake up at 5.45am to wash up and bath, wake hubby up at 6.30am and go to MIL house at 6.45am.
Hope Jovian can sleep well at Grandma house...
Really very tired now, lucky tomorrow is holiday, can wake up late.
Monday, April 28, 2008
11 months
Here is the update on Jovian at 11 months:
1) Jovian know how to wave goodbye
2) Jovian trying to pronoun words like, baba, ah ba, ma....
3) Jovian can crawl very fast now but she use 1 leg and her backside to help her crawl, so different from other children....
4) Jovian favourite things is her soft toys, bunny, piglet and dumbo. She don't really like to play with her toys only soft toys, she like to hug them very tight and won't let us touch or keep her soft toys. She can hug them and fall asleep on her cot and car seat.
5) Jovian can stand up holding her baby cot herself.
6) Jovian knows how to sit up by herself when she on her bed. So when we put her on her bed she keep sitting up and play with her soft toys, don't want to sleep, need hubby to play with her for a while and pat her sleep.
7) Jovian scare of stranger, she don't like our friends to carry her, can only play with her but cannot touch her.
8) Jovian know how to hold her milk bottle to drink herself but after awhile lazy and need mummy to hold for her.
9) Jovian understand what mummy say to her now.
10) Jovian know how to say no by moving her head side to side.
I think that all for the update....
Sunday, April 27, 2008
High Fever
On the way, i put cool gel on her forehead to cool down her temperture 1st, and let her sit on her baby car seat to sleep. We going two places, on the way to second place, she don't wants to sit on the car seat so i carry her and pat her to sleep again.... after she fall asleep on my arm for a while, she suddenly open her eye and her hand shaking abit, i though what happen to her, i keep calling her, at 1st she will look at me, after awhile her both hands shake and her eye look at the top, i call her name, she no respond, i keep telling her, " what happen to you, don't scare mummy! what happen to you, don't scare mummy!" I also shake her body, she also no respond, I so scare....
I quikly ask hubby to drive her to hospital, lucky that we are on AYE and near NUH. On the way, i keep asking hubby why still having reach!!! About to reach, I think she can't breath, her lip turn blue and her face turn white, i so scare anything will happen to her, i keep holding her very tight and say to her "Don't scare, mummy here, don't scare." but myself very scare!!!!
When we reach hospital emergency, she feeling much better, now is my hand shaking and about to cry out. The nurse , measure her temperture, it reach 39.2. The nurse ask us to wait for doctor so i calling Jovian name, she now can respond to me.
Doctor tell us that, her fever is too high and she become like this, it is a kind of stroke. I ask him will it affect her brain or her health?? Doctor say no but he say got bad news, he say Jovian is below 1 year old need to stay in hospital for check up, and see will it happen again... He ask us to decide whether to let her stay.... My hubby say don't let her stay, cause now got many hand mouth disease.. so we tell Doctor, he say ok, and look at Jovian and say she can smile and respond so we need to take extra care of her, and tell us what we had to do. He teach us if this happen again, need to put her lay on a flat surface and turn her to aside to let her breath.... After 10 min, she will regain her conscious. If after 10 min, baby is still unconscious, need to go straight to hospital.
Lucky now, after having her medicine, she much better now. Can start playing and talking.....
This is the 1st time i experience this, really scared me to death.... Hope that Jovian will be more healthy and strong, "mummy won't let anything happen to you again!"
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Angry with myself
I am having heavy flu, i not feeling so well and more worse how i make Jovian, she just don't sleep. I feel so angry and scolded at her loudly and say to her " if you don't sleep i won't let you sleep!". I carry her out to sit on the floor and let her cry. I really feel very frustrated and sick and hate to look at her.... I put her to sleep twice, she still sitting up so i beat her on her face. (not so hard....)
My husband see me so angry, he quickly go to play with Jovian and let me calm dwn. I really dunno what happen to me, I keep feeling very frustrated about little things, i really feel so tired!!!
How can i be so rough to Jovian??? I also dunno....
I find that looking after a child is a tiring things some more need to wake up at night to feed her milk. Sick also need to do all the things by myself!!! Other mum is so relax on looking after their child, i dunno why i feel so stress.I really not a good mum!!!
I need to let Jovian sleep early cause she need to wake up early every morning, i scare she dun have enough sleep. Some more she go to my MIL place, she seldom sleep. She become more and more thinner, I afraid she not healthy enough. She drink lest milk now, dunno her tooth coming out or she is sick...... I try to let her sleep for 10hrs at night until morning but yesterday she only going to sleep at 10pm, which means only sleep for 8hrs. Last week, Jovian having flu, i bring her to clinic. The doctor measure her weight, she is 7.9kg at 10 months, the doctor say Jovian is too light for her month, she need to obtain 9kg when she reach 1 yr old!!! I so worry about her health, cos i working, and i also dunno what my MIL feed her or got let her sleep. I cnt ask MIL too much, later gonna her scold again, and ask me to look after myself. I still waiting for time to bring her to childcare when she reach 18 months.
Jovian hand and shoulder suddenly got many rashes, dunno whether is the weather too warm or my house or her cot is dirty. but i clean the house on every wkend.... or my MIL sweating and keep carry Jovian, or Jovian keep carrying her sofe toy.... i also dunno....
I will bring Jovian to see doctor tomorrow again, to check what happen, I scare the hand, mouth disease, but she did not go childcare so i don't think so....
Monday, April 21, 2008
Update for Sun (20/04/08)
While Jovian eat her baby biskut herself.
It is Jovian milk time again. We go back to United Sq, baby room to feed her.
Update for Sat (19/04/08)
I take out the baby safe mattress and clean the baby cot.
She like to hug her dumbo when she wake up, so i also wash all her soft toys.
We now teaching her ABC & 123, i paste it on the living room wall, when Jovian playing her toys, sometimes she will look at the ABC & 123 when i ask her where issit.
Lazy Mum
I so lazy, I just learn how to cook porriage for Jovian just a month ago... cos every sat my mum will come to my house to look after Jovian when i working half day on alternate sat or come to visit Jovian when i not working...
She will cook for Jovian and feed her. When i am at home, my mum will also do all the things for me, so i will intend to be lazy to do anything.... I really appreciate my mum for doing so many things for me. I love her so much...
Although I will feel bad for so lazy looking after Jovian but i really very tired.... I need to wake up at night and feed her milk and everytime i will wake up to see whether she is cold or sleep well..... I find that after giving birth to Jovian until now, I seldom sleep, I will wake up every hrs to check on her, the next day i still need to work, really very stress so when i reach home, i seldom wants to play with her and some more i got so many house works need to do, i need to boil the water, change all the cold water to warm water, stream the milk bottle, wash clothes, etc.... Lucky that my hubby know i have many things to do, so he will play with Jovian every night until her milk time and will sweep or mop the floor on weekend...
Those who had maid with them is a good thing, like me no maid need to do all the things myself.... so i too lazy to learn how to cook for Jovian... I am a lazy and bad mum.... I dunno why i become so lazy and frustrated, issit i not enough sleep or give myself too many excuse?? I, myself also dunno why...
When i young, I like children very much, until have children myself, i really know how my mum went through, how tired and stress on how to look after them... I don't really have much of my own time, and i can't go out to relax myself and gather with my friends.... I not blaming anybody, i just blame myself for not planning all the things well...
Saturday, April 19, 2008
Bird Park
All the photo is Jovian cos Bird Park nothing to take photo... The trip to Bird Park is so boring and tiring..... really nothing to see... only few bird.... Lucky we brought the ticket from hometeam as hubby is a member there. Each letter cost $2.00, admit 4 people or else the ticket price is $18/person. Our nx target is science centre, each letter is $1, admit 5 people....
Friday, April 18, 2008
Jovian Daily Routine
1) After dinner at toh guan, reach home around 7.30pm, put Jovian on the floor, daddy play with her until 8.30pm. mummy doing housework.....
2) At around 8.15pm, mummy prepared cereal milk for Jovian. The preparation is shown below:
3) After finish her cereal milk, clean up for Jovian, change diaper, put baby powder and prepared to sleep.
4) Before going to sleep, Jovian needs to say goodnight to daddy, mummy.
5) Mummy will carry Jovian to her Baby Cot.
6) Jovian roll here and there, after that fall asleep around 9.00pm.
7) After Jovian sleep, is hubby and my relax times. We will watch tv progammes or log in to internet to blog.
Divorced
I find that nowaday married is so weak, together for so many years and got children with them, they can still think of divorced. I feels so hurt and sad for them, all is my beloved brother and friends.... They went through so many things together still end up like this.... Did they share a thought for their children....
A couple end up divorced, most hurt is their children not them!!!
Nw I feel unsecured on married, I also worry I will end up like them..... all the cases is regarding betray on each other and ended up divorced.... Y men betray their wife??? We as a women give birth and went through the pain which they wnt know and do some many things for them, did they know???? In the end, they can still go out to find pretty women!!!! All pretty women wnt become old women or become ugly!!!
I hate those women who like to snatch people husband, they feel that it is more exciting!!! So many men are single, they purposely like excitement on married men!!!
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Monday, April 14, 2008
VivoCity
We decide to go to Vivocity on sat (12/04/08) for a walk. Singapore is too small and no place to go... I think alternate wkend i always go to Vivocity cos the shopping centre is more bigger and more children apartment store....
We alway park at Habourfront to shop 1st den process our way to Vivocity. Mother Care just open at HabourFront and is quit big. Jovian saw a bunny there and Jovian like it so much so I buy for her.
Coming up still got some picture of Jovian at Vivocity Top Floor, seeing children playing water, too bad she still baby so can't play.....
Mon blue
I find that i am out of date for many years, cos i seldom go to website to take a look on what happening around the world....
After marriage, i so lazy to contract friends or go to website to take a look on their blog or friendster... i am too lazy to log in. After work, i need to cook dinner and watch tv programme and rest on sofa day dreaming and do nothing....
After have baby, i need to attend to her. play with her, make her sleep, feed her milk, too busy to contact my friends.
Now have more time, but all my friends is gone.... try to sms or contact them, some lost my nos or no time for me... so sad.... I feel very left out.... Luckily, i can still blog here or see their blog on what going on.
I still young and act like "huang nie pao".... I needs to change myself now. Now i always go to singaporemotherhood to find out more on looking after the baby and what is the BP there. I also try to blog here on what happening on myself and my Jovian daily process. I so happy that i have Jovian with me so I can talk to her.... hehe...
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Standing Up
Just now at my mil house, she say Jovian knows how to stand and she show to me.
She put her lay near to the wall, Jovian really can stand straight toward the wall. This is the 1st time I saw Jovian stand up. So happy to see her sit up, crawl and stand up. Still waiting for her 1st step.... Every month, will see different changes and different growing stages on her. To see our baby grows up healthy and becoming more pretty (hehe....) is a wonderful thing.
Here is some pictures showing hw she stand.
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Wave Goodbye
I also teach her how to kiss mummy and daddy. When i ask her to kiss me or her daddy, she knows how to do it now.
I so happy to see all this small things which I teach her just a few time and she knows how to do it:) Only 1 sad issue is she don't really wants to crawl....
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Outing on Wkend
Aft Singapore Explo, we went to United Sq, as I heared from many friends say about this place so I going there to take alook. Its really a great place for parents, I think whole building concept is about baby.
Now the soft toy is on sale at 50%. So we brought a tweety Bird for Jovian and my hubby like baby taz so we also brought one.
Friday, April 4, 2008
When to Introduce Solids?
From 6 months onwards you can start giving various vegetable purees (potato, cauliflower, carrot, squash and etc.). Again you can buy it in the baby food section. All baby food companies are offering a variety of jarred first foods purees. You can also make purees by yourself. Jarred purees do not contain any salt, sugar, oil, butter or spices. When you make your own puree do not sweeten or add salt to the dish but you can add a drop of oil or a touch of butter. Make sure to introduce one vegetable after another giving each vegetable a week to make sure there are no allergies or author discomfort signs. Also while adding butter be careful to see whether it does not cause an allergy. Many moms will choose not to add anything.
At around seven to eight months you can start giving some fruit purees or fruit juices diluted with water. It is important to dilute juices with water because juices are sweet and your baby might refuse to nurse or drink formula after drinking sweet juice. Remember that breast milk or formula is still your baby’s main food and solids are just a nice addition. Apple purees could be given first, then you can try prunes or plums (especially if your baby gets constipated after eating an iron fortified cereal). Some babies while transitioning into solids might not have a bowl movement for up to 8 nine days! Try giving prunes’ juice or prunes’ puree, this often helps. Let your pediatrician know what’s happening and follow his instructions. After couple of months things should come back to normal.
At nine months you can start giving protein rich foods, like fish, meat, beans. Milk products are not recommended until your baby is a year old so cottage cheese, cheese is not an option. Yogurt though, is ok as long as your baby is not allergic to it. While preparing meat and fish dishes be very careful to boil them for a long time and make sure they are well cooked. Also give only very small portions of meat until they are well over 12 months.
Finally, when your baby is already 11 or 12 months old babies can be transitioned to family table foods. When you are cooking for yourself leave a little portion out before adding main heavy spices or oils. Your child’s meal should not contain lots of fat, hot spices or salt. As soon as your baby has front teeth they can try chewing little piece. They like to bite and often imitate us.













