Little Jovian

2011-12-17T07:32:00.001+08:00

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Sian!!!!

2010-10-08T22:53:00.001+08:00

I really hate my life!!! I so disappointed in my married!!! Y I married this kind of guy???

I really think of running away from this home but think of my kids, I dun dare to do it... I also dunno where can I go...

Now I got 2nd child, I cnt think of divorce yet, must wait until I give birth and need to settle many things...

Divorce is the last choice, I giving him many chance but he din treasure it.. He keep making me disappointed... I so tired of staying with him anymore!!! But wat can I do?

I also lazy to talk to him, whenever he came back Hm from work, he will release his stress on us by scolding us!!! Everybody also got stress, y cnt he came back saw us, and give a happy face... I also very stress on many things but I wnt release stress on him. So now I seldom wants to talk much to him, mostly is he do the talking.... I feel so tired talking to him, cos will end up quarreling...

Every husband will rush Hm aft work to see their belove family but not him!!! He will go drink with his colleague aft work or after reach Hm, he will go to kopi shop to drink!!! Leave Jovian under my care, I got so many things to do, how to play with Jovian.. I only wants him to stay at Hm to accompany Jovian but he cnt do it!

Last time, he a gd husband and daddy, aft reach Hm, he will play with Jovian but now NO, he will only scold her!!!

After he change his work job, he completely a change person, i hate his colleague, everytime ask him go to drink!!!

The most stupid things is I pregnant with 2nd child!!! I can only take care of myself and Jovian and dun think so much to make myself so depress... I can only accept it as this is my life...

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Married Life (Part 2)

2010-08-03T16:14:00.000+08:00

Dunno how to start, i really tired of my married life!!!! I really envy those who dare to divorce.... now i know why many dun dare to divorce all becos of the children, they dun 1 them to be with only single parents. i now pregnant, also can't do anything..... i feel so stress and no more love with this guy!!!

I thought to myself, if i dun have this 2nd child, will i straight away divorce with him???? i really dare???? i also dunno....

Now i pregnant, he after work rather accompany his colleague go for drink and talk rubbish until very late on weekends.... left me and Jovian at home!!!! Every pregnancy i will get depression..... nobody care for me and still need to worry after i give birth, who will look after baby for me..... so tired of my life.....

Why most pple can live a happy life and not ME!!!! Why must i married this type of guy!!!! Now i hack care of everything, he talk to me, i also listen half of it.

Most can stay together forever and still so loving.... now we are like stranger, he talk i hack care, i seldom talk to him.... i so lazy to talk to him..... Go to work, i will be more happy, got someone to talk to and complain to.... I also no more close friends to talk to anymore and i also lazy to contact them.....

2nd baby

2010-05-17T15:20:00.000+08:00

haiz.... so long din write my blog liao.... actually i dunno wat to write....

ok la, i will begin with my 2nd pregnancy. 2nd pregnancy is unexpected to me and my hubby, and we dun dare to tell my MIL yet, and i am worry about my confinement as if we hired confinement lady, it is so expensive and need to use up almost $4k, but if i order confinement foods only, nobody look after the baby for me for the 1st week.....haiz...so many things to think.....really is no money no talk!!!!!

I thinking of asking MIL to help but i dun think she will help, i also scare she wont want to look after my baby for me..... not only i dun dare to tell MIL, my hubby also scare until now he dun dare to inform his mum!!!

I heard my friend story, she told me she also got baby and going to give birth this year, at 1st she and her hubby also unexpected for this child and plan to abort when the baby is 2months in the womb, they already plan the date with the doctor for abortion. Lucky that before few days of abortion, her hubby went to see a master to ask for his career den the master asked him whether he got good news to share with him? He told the master his wife just pregnant and thinking of abortion a few days time. The master told them dun do anything wrong, as this is gift from the god and dun destroy it!! Then they thought it over, and think that the master is right, so they give up their plan.

Although i din think of abortion, but after listen to what my friend told me, why i din think of abortion cos i afraid of pain and i dun want to hurt the baby, the baby is not in the wrong in the 1st place. If i really went for abortion i will regret forever and will not forgive myself!!! I must hold on, and bring up my 2 kids, no matter how badly our finance is!!!

Enough of all these things, i will talk about the process about this pregnancy now. Now is about 2months +, everyday after meals in the afternoon and night, i will vomit out all the foods i eat, so wasted..... i cannot go to the toilet, wherever i see the toilet bowl, i will feel like vomit..... this is more serious den the 1st pregnant. I am becoming more and more moody, i dun like to see Jovian do things which i hate, i will scream at her and beat her up, and she dun like to follow me anymore, she will stick to her daddy more, and ask her daddy to carry her whenever we go shopping. She will also ask her daddy to make her sleep or accompany her to bed to patch her sleep. When going to bath, she wants her daddy to bath for her. This way also good la, i dun need to waste my time on her, and i can rest more and do my housework.

Lucky my hubby will learn how to bath Jovian and make her sleep as he also wants to sleep early himself. But he also become impatiently nowadays as Jovian become more and more naughty after she went to childcare.

I really hope hubby will help me more, but i think he also lazy after long hours of work....

That all, will update again....

Married Life

2010-04-22T09:21:00.000+08:00

I feel tired of Married Life... I feel like leaving this house but i think of Jovian, i cnt bring myself to do it... moreover i got 2nd child now, i cnt do anything!

Pregnancy Test Result!

2010-04-16T15:44:00.000+08:00

Haiz.... dunno bad or good news to me & Hubby.... This really not expected and is a sudden surprise for us!!!

I check the pregnancy kit on Wed (14 Mar2010), as my period was late for 5days, shit!!! really can't believe, is POSITIVE!!!!! I told my colleague, the kit is spoilt, i will try it next day.....

den nx day, i ask my colleague to test 1st before i test again, she test is negative, i test 2nd time is still positive.... OMG!!! Must believe this is true liao.....

I told my hubby this news, he still can ask me is tiger or rabbit year!!!! I so angry, he still can care is which year!!! I so worry how to inform his parent about this news, i think his parent won't look after for me as hubby brother wife also give birth around Oct'10....haiz....also need to worry about the confinement meals, nobody cook or look after baby for me, i need to do everything myself.....haiz....back to sq 1 again.... so many things to worry about....

IMU Department!

2010-04-12T18:30:00.002+08:00

So happy to change job, and come to this department as i knew many good friends here... This department is much more bigger than my previous company, so we gossip also need to use MSN....haha....

So much fun in IMU, get to know many people....
and we will gather 5 of us to go for lunch and gossip....

Jovian goes playground

2010-02-08T16:27:00.002+08:00

Now hubby just change his job so need to work shift work and mostly his shift arrange on wkend, no outing for us Liao and I need to stay at home to look after Jovian, so tired...

I need to clean up the house, and Jovian will mess around, and purposely bring her toys out when i cleaning up!!!! Her main purpose is to ask me to bring her out to play... and she likes to go indoor playground but hubby not in, so nobody drive us there, i no choice, i can only bring her to void deck to play.... after that, when bring her home, she mess around again..... haiz.... everytimes need me to beat her up or scold her... i dun really likes to scold her as i scare my whole neighbourhood will hear what i scold! She stay at home whole day, i can scold whole day....

Jovian 1st day of School on 04/01/10 (Mon)

2010-01-25T10:43:00.008+08:00

Lack of update, cos too lazy liao....

Jovian finally go to school on 04 Jan 10, First 2days she was so happy to go to Childcare cos i with her all the way, but 3rd day, i told her i wait outside for her, she started to cry very loud....

Haiz, until now she still very scare to go to Childcare for only 4hrs, every morning, when she wake up, she will ask she wants to go where, i told her go to school, she immediate cry and say she dun wants to go school, she wants to go Ah Ma hse.....

After going to school for 1 week, 2nd week, she having high fever, flu & cough for whole weeks, i take 1 week leave to look after her, i really scare of her getting fever, cos her fever can reach 39+ degree and will get fit! So every night i need to wake up every hrs to feel her forehead to see high anot, if high, i will sponge her and give her medicine.....

Today is 3rd weeks liao, she still the same, very scare of going to school, when we reach there, she will cry out loud and wnt let me go working, she ask mummy go where?

I think she scare of the teachers there, the teachers is very fierce and i hide there to watch the teachers before, they anyhow drag the children hands very hard, when the children cry, they wnt bother to carry them and let them cool dwn. If they saw we are there, they will treat our children good, so i ask my MIL to reach there early to see Jovian.... really very hard for them to go to school so early, and scare until like this... heart pain to see her like this, but no choice need to work!

Den now, hubby went to sentosa to work, the season parking is so expensive, so he din drive his car to work, and i need to bring and fetch back home, so tired lor, everyday is so busy bringing her to and fro......

Jovian Christmas Present!

2009-12-23T11:14:00.002+08:00

Taken on 13/12/09 (Sunday), before going out to shop, i take out all bigger size which was given by my cousin and let Jovian try on, most of the clothes, she can wear liao, but this Chinese New Year clothes look small on her.... haiz.....

No car today, we need to take bus out shopping, we went to Suntec City so we decided to take bus 97. It took about 30-45mins to reach there.... so tired.... but Jovian likes to take bus instead of MRT....

When we about to go home, we saw this wishing ball, so we decided to write our wish on it and Jovian go and play the ball by kicking on it.... haha...

Jovian Christmas present is a DORA school bag for her childcare next yr (Jan'10)

Jovian 1st Visitor

2009-12-23T09:21:00.004+08:00

Taken on 12/11/09 (Friday), this is 1st time got young visitor came to our house to play with Jovian. Jovian was so happy but she is selfish to bring her toys to let them play so i bring her toys out and told her, need to share with other!

Aisleyne was so cute, she will play herself but she will proposely come and distube her sister and make her cry very loud.

So bluff look..... haha.....

Three of them fighting for the trucks....

Only Jovian and Amabel got the vehicles....

Finally Aisleyne got a chance to sit the vehicle..... haha....

After Amabel knows Aisleyne sit her vehicle, she cry very loud and Jovian go and hugged her to let Amabel clam down... haha.... This really work, Amabel clam down after Jovian hugged her.....

After that, i bring them to our bedroom to play the kitchen set, they having fun playing together..

After E-ling and Weishan went home, Jovian told me her ear was very pain, den i saw her swollen ear, we remember before that Amabel cry very loud behind the kitchen, but Jovian din cry, now den i know, i think is Amabel teeth hit to Jovian ear when they are playing together.

Nx day, Jovian ear was more swollen and blue-black, i quickly apply cream to her ear.

Car break down liao....

2009-12-09T08:43:00.007+08:00

Yesterday, Hubby on his way to drive me home after work, his car suddenly vibrate and the check light came out! SHIT!!! His car break down, lucky he still can drag his car all the way to NUS carpark and park nicely there..... We called the towing but they only can come on nx morning, so i called Security of NUS as i saw from carpark charges, cannot park overnight....

All the car things, we also need to move back home as we gtg to scrape our car. We take a taxi and move all the things to the taxi, now den i knows some many things inside our car, mostly is Jovian shoes and toys! After that, we still need to call my MIL to tell her to look after Jovian for 1 night as no time to go to TG to bring her home, luckily MIL wants to look after Jovian for us.

This is 2nd time, Jovian was not w us, miss her so much! She not at home, our house was so quite....

This photo was taking in the morning, i will miss our Matrix, its accompany us for almost 6years, its really a good transportation for us to tour around Singapore..... Too bad it cnt accompany us anymore, so many car types, i still love this car the most!

Update on outing

2009-11-25T14:29:00.021+08:00

We went to Orchard Central on 25 Oct 09 (Sun), although most of the shop is open but not many people there... after window shopping, we went for lunch at Suki Sushi....

We found that OC was not children friendly as not much kids shop or toilet for kids, so we went to opposite which is Robinson, more fun there.....

I brought these few t-shirt on 26 Oct 09 (Mon) at our company bazzar, all are too large size for Jovian as i like to buy large size, children grown very fast. After reach home, i tried on Jovian, she liked to take photo now, she will pose for me to take photo...... haha.... but i asked her dun smile until so ugly, so she dun smile at all.....

I changed for her for a few times until she said she very tired liao, no strength to stand up so she lied dwn to take photo.... lazy Jovian.... hehe.....

This was taken on 28 Oct 09 (Wed), we reach home after feeding her milk, whenever she dun 1 2 drink milk, she will act that her stomach is pain and give me a face, i 1 2 take photo of her in pain look, but she dun 1 2 show her face liao.... haiz....

This is Jovian favourite "Phant Plant".....hehe....

We went to my mum house on 01 Nov 09 (Sun), we will try to go there on Sunday as Jovian like to go there play with Fei Fei, she can't stay at home, she need play mate to play with her, but sad to say everytimes can't any friends children to play with her, and i also lazy to contact people.... haiz.....

We went to ION on 08 Nov 09 (Sun), we bringing Jovian to see the Christmas Light up. Before gtg, i take photo of Jovian, can see from the photo, she look so happy when she knows we gtg to bring her out....

Finally reach ION, she so happy when she saw a big christmas tree there....

more happy when she saw got water there, she likes to play with water...

Still early so can't see the light up yet....

I ask her to sit at the fountain to take photo, she so scare she will fall inside the water, so her pose was so weird.... haha....

This is her favourite christmas tree, this tree was made of many bear.... this is at the entrance of taka...

Her favourite "Phant Phant".... this is really a jumbo dumbo.....

I waited for the light up until 7pm, but still no light up so we decided to go home as Jovian was so tired.... when we walking toward our car, the light on.... shit!!

On the way home, Jovian fall asleep in the car, when she reach home, i put her on the bed, she wake up and cry and see around the room..... She think why suddenly at home, she haven see the light up yet..... haha..... she cry non-stop... haiz... need to bring her to see the light up again....

Now she likes to take photo, whenever i use my camera, she will run toward me and smile at the camera but i ask her don't smile better....haha....

She can smile until like this so ugly....

Fat mummy and sweet Jovian.

Making funny face for me to take photo.

Taking photo with her best "friend"... hehe....

Now she likes to play hanging clothes, so she go hang her phant phant on the door... hehe....

We went to vivo on 21/11/09 (Sat), there nothing to see for the christmas, only a large christmas on 3rd floor....

This is the christmas at Harbour Front....

After that we went to eat at Pizza Hut as hubby and Jovian like to eat Pizza...

Busy... busy.... busy....

2009-11-11T11:01:00.002+08:00

So long time din blog liao.... so busy lately....

Busy with my work, busy with my girl, busy with my sleep.... haiz.... hehe....

I dunno why, after working in the new company, after reach home, i feel so tired, when i pat Jovian to sleep, i will also fall asleep... Sometimes Jovian haven sleep, i already in my dreamland... I think I always feel tired, because no music in the office, the whole office was so quite, last time in my current company, our radio will switch to quit a loud noise, and i will sing along with the songs, but now all very quite, lucky got things to do, or else i surely fall alseep.....

As for Jovian, she knows how to speak many sentences liao, she likes to speak in Chinese as she at her Ah Ma hse, and she always speak with Jovian in English & Hokkien. Only we reach home, I will ask Jovian to communicate with us in English. I still haven decide where to put Jovian in the Childcare, and dunno whether to put her for 2 hrs school or half day or whole day in Childcare Centre.... haiz....

Outing on 17-18/10/09

2009-10-25T12:12:00.003+08:00

On 17/10/09 (Sat) morning, decided to bring Jovian to Swim at Hometeam Club House, which is just opposite our house. We went there around 10.30am, the weather was so hot, but Jovian still wanted to go swimming so we just put her in the swimming pool, and she play herself...

At first she was so scare as this is her 1st time in swimming. She don't dare to sit on the float, i try her is ok 1, this thing can float. She stay there for awhile den decided to sit on it, and i ask her to put her leg, and it will float itself, she also try for awhile only....

We let her play for only half an hours as it really very hot & warm.... Nx time will bring her to play again, since she liked it so much....

At night, we bring her to West Coast Park to playground as no place to go. She don't likes to stand on the sand, she scare the sand will go inside her shoe and her leg will feel something there... she don't like that feeling so whenever we put her on the sand and ask her to go playground herself, she will ask her daddy to carry her to playground and put her on top.... "Faint"

On 18/10/09 (Sun), we went to pray at Bukit Batok with Hubby parents after that we bring them out for a walk, we went to Vivo and saw this little girl.... she was so..... CUTE! She only 10 months old and she can walk liao! Jovian likes to play with her and 1 2 hold her hands and walk....

After we bring them to Bottle TRee Park as they din go before, they like that place very much.... we having fun there.....

New Environment & Update

2009-10-13T11:13:00.003+08:00

So long din blog liao..... so lazy to write anything as too busy and tired....

Update about myself 1st, i just started work in my new company for 2 weeks, i try to settle myself in this new environment as i din work in big company before..... many things to learn here as compared to current company, nothing to learn! But also abit stress here, need to cope well with many colleague, last time only me and "Lao Cha Bo" but lucky i had a buddy to help & teach me all the things which i need to do...

Every Sat, I also need to go back to current company to help my Skinny boss to settle the account work. Every Sat is also very rush for me as i only work for him for half day, i need to settle all the document for the week, after that need to rush back to fetch Jovian. At 1st i got tell my MIL, i will need to work on every sat and need her to look aft Jovian for half day, but nw she start to complain again, said that she had no time to settle her own things on wkend! I ask my hubby to look aft Jovian himself but he scare cos later Jovian "pu pu", he dunno how to clean her, he din do anything before, as all was done by me! No choice, think need to bring Jovian to work liao..... hiaz....

As for Jovian, she knows how to sing some songs but she can mix all the songs together.... haha... She is quit a clever girl now, if she at home, she will ask her Ah Ma or me dun let her wear dryper, as she knows how to go to her potty herself. She knows how to speak in full sentences liao, she is a "xiao da ren" now! She still quit a naughty girl, everytime beat her Ah Ma when she is angry so i need to beat her up after i heard complain from her Ah Ma!

Quarrel with "Lao Cha Bo"

2009-09-18T08:19:00.003+08:00

Yesterday just quarrel with my old crazy colleague! She everytimes likes to find someone to quarrel, her temper is very HOT! Almost all our colleague had quarrel with her, all of us dun really like her, but no choice had to work with her! So tired, to work with her, everything dun 1 2 learn, only knows how to play FB!

Yesterday just regarding abit of things she also 1 2 quarrel, ok i think nvm, cos i resign liao, so quarrel with her lor.Before that, i tell my boss, i will come back on every Sat to settle my accounts job, and if i got time i will try to do the IEMS system job, i just only ask her to key in the case as if wait for me to come back, will be many case liao, she say nvm, she 1 2 learn the IEMS to key in the inv as nx time she also need to know how to use the system, i say ok, i teach her, she learn things was very slow and blurr, i patiently teach her, and she slowly knows how to do it... But yesterday, i ask her whether she 1 2 try to use the system to issue inv as i gtg off soon, i though she willing to learn, but in the end, she told me, this is not her job and boss din ask her to learn or do, she turn her words suddenly, i feel wired, i think her friends teach her.... I din say this is her job, i just 1 2 teach her more, as my boss dun intend to hire any staff liao, if he hire staff, all the things she dunno how to teach other leh.... my good intention become forcing her to take over all the job....

I find that now old woman (means my colleague) so lazy to learn new things, for her work, she is very free, everytime can go to FB to play games, she told me she free is her problem, ok i tell her nvm, is also not my problem as i resign liao! Now i only helping my boss to teach her things, if she dun learn nobody will teach her liao! She can ask Boss to hire another girl to do all my job, i dun come back this company more better, i can rest on weekend!

After my boss come back, i told him everything, my boss also kanna SHIT, he and she like couple, no wonder boss wife will check on her, and every year will msg so dirty words to scold her cheap! I also dunno y i can work for this boss for 7 years, i got try to resign for 2 times but still because my big boss ask me to come back. This 2 times of resign all because of skinny boss & the 'lao cha bo', i really dun like them, everyday come to work also need to act friendly to them! Although my job is very relax, but i everytimes no mood to go to work, whenever i step inside i will feel tired and sick!

Lucky i dun need to see them liao, i feel really happy but also nervous abt my new job.

Update on Jovian 27 months

2009-09-08T12:52:00.003+08:00

So long din update on Jovian growing up....

Jovian now knows how to speak in full sentences, she likes to ask "What is this? What is that?" She can repeat herself many times for asking this two question..... *FAINT*

She is really very naughty now, whenever she do something wrong, i beat her real hard, she wnt cry! but she will say she wnt do it again.... after awhile, she forgot what she promise me, and repeat her mistake again..... Everytimes make me until very angry and beat her.... She cnt stay at home with me, i will become sian....

Now whenever i ask her to do something she dun like, she wnt do it except i telling her i gtg to take my cane liao, den she will do it.... haiz.... need to buy a new cane liao.... haha....

Jovian dun like to wear dryper now, she knows how to go to her potty which we put it outside the toilet when she wants 'pu pu' or urine.... she is much clever now. I told her if 'pu pu' must tell me and i bring her to potty, but one day i doing my housework at kitchen, i din hear her voice, so i go check out, she sitting on the potty, i ask her what u doing, she said she 'pu pu', i say clever girl knows how to go the potty 1st.... i tell her after 'pu pu' finish call me, after 'pu pu' she really call me to come and wash her..... i really very happy that Jovian had grown up and knows how to do her business on her own.....

Pillow Fighting on 15/08/09 (Sat)

2009-08-20T11:15:00.004+08:00

Celest was on leave for 2 weeks so i arrange her to come our house, as we so long did not meet liao, she is still the same, no boyfriend now.... haiz....

When Celest came, Jovian was having her afternoon nap, i asked Celest to bring her laptop to my house as she got problem with her Facebook, "Farmville" so we try to fix it, lucky she can play with it liao.... after an hour, Jovian wake up, at first Jovian was so shy, as she only saw Celest on her 1st yr birthday, so she dunno Celest at all....

Jovian wnt let Celest carry her or talk to her.... after a while i ask Jovian to bring her toy out to play, and Celest play with her and Jovian likes her so she play together with Celest Aunty.....

I ask Celest to sit on Jovian truck and Jovian try to push her... haha....

Celest hide in Jovian paper house to play with her, but awhile later, she tell me it is very hot inside....haha... i faster take the house up and let her come out....

Go out with Steven Family on 18/07/09

2009-08-20T10:21:00.013+08:00

So long din put up photo here as the blogger got problem upload the photo, lucky i went to my SMH friend blog and find out she also got the same problem, and her friend teach her how to do, so i follow.

This was taken on 18/07/09, we went to Farmart @ cck, Jovian never go before so we thinking of bringing her there, i also arrange to meet hubby friends there with their children.....

Jovian having so much fun as she can feed the small animals there.... but she is very 'jie pi' like her daddy, she dun want to come dwn on the sand area, she can only stand on a cement flooring..... haiz 'faint'.... she scare the sand will go in to her shoe.... so when we bring her to West Coast Park, she wnt come dwn to walk at the sand playground.....

Can see from the photo, her daddy just put her dwn on the sand flooring, she quickly ask her daddy to carry her....

If this kind of flooring she is ok, she will come dwn and walk around.... haha....

This is the fishing prawn area....

After that we went to Qian Hu to look at fishes..... so many different kind of fish there....

We went to IMM to have our lunch @ Mcdonald, den we bring the children to the 3rd floor playground to play...

Jovian enjoy playing with water splash......

Jovian sick again!

2009-08-05T08:27:00.000+08:00

Don't why, Jovian keep having high fever after bitten by mosqitoes....

She just got high fever just a few months back, but now having fever again.... so worry abt her.... She start having fever on Saturday, i need to wake up every hours to feel her forehead and take temperature for her.... i really worry her temperature went up and get fit again cos she got it 2 times....

Everytime when i feel her forehead very hot, after measure for her is 39.3, i quickly sponge her 1st before feeding her medicine.... i will sponge her until her temperature become lower den i wnt so worry...

I feel that she become more and more weaker liao, so i try to feed her muti-vitamin but still get fever....

When she sick, she will become very naughty, she will throw her things and beat us, cos she know she sick so i don't dare to beat her, but still i will beat her to teach her that all the things she do now is wrong....

She is much better today, so i went back to work as i already take 2 days urgent leave to take care of her cos MIL dunno how to take care her and feed her medicine!

Haiz, i so tired now cos i look Jovian and not enough sleep, i also going to fall sick liao, so yesterday i quickly take medicine 1st....

Jovian Knows hw to Sing Song

2009-07-23T08:09:00.002+08:00

Jovian knows hw to sing song liao, so clever girl! But she only knows hw to sing chinese song which i sing to her every night to make her sleep... she just knows the front part like, "tinkle tinkle little star" in chinese & more song.... yesterday just teach her "2 tigers" in chinese, she knows hw to sing the 1st two lines.... hehe....

She can speak very well now, only that she very blurr between me & u or mine & yours??? She will say opposite to us, like she wants us to carry her, she will say "mummy carry you" so we still teaching her between me & u.

Her chinese is very gd as her grandma everytimes speak to her in chinese & hokkien....but whenever she speak in hokkien, i will scold her cos i scare she go to childcare will reply the teachers in hokkien, no face leh!

Yun Fei 1st Birthday!

2009-07-21T13:55:00.001+08:00

We went to Brother hse to celebrate Yun Fei 1st Birthday on 11/07/09 (Sat), when we haven reach their hse, we accompany mum to buy birthday present for Yun Fei, after buying, i ask my mum to call my brother to order the Pizza & KFC 1st as need to wait for 1hrs but he still sleeping!!

When we reach there, his wife went dwn to buy Pizza 1st & she already order KFC. My brother still sleeping like a pig!!!! What the point to invite us to come and see him SLEEP!!! Really don't look like his daughter is having birthday that day!!!

This couple is like a PIG, everytimes we go their hse, everytimes see them sleep, like nvm sleep for whole life!!!!

The PIG Family!!! haha....

My mum pulling Jovian, cos Jovian wants to go and touch the cake... hehe....

Gotcha! my mum ask me don't take photo of her cos she din change to beautiful clothing.... haha....

Finally ask my beloved mum to sit dwn and take photo of her....

I ask them to put things on the floor for Yun Fei to take, we put so many things but she only take the book......nx time is a bookworm....

Ask Jovian to sit beside "Mei Mei" to take photo....

Last time ask Jovian to sit on this walker when she still a few months old, she don't like to sit, but now give this to mei mei liao, when she go there saw this walker, she ask me to put her inside sit and walk around with it.... haiz..... naughty girl....

Yun Fei 1st shoe from her po po...

Jovian not at home!

2009-07-20T11:08:00.002+08:00

Jovian went to stay at MIL House on Friday (17/07/09), on that night, hubby work ot and i prepared to bring Jovian home by myself, when i was walking from Bukit Batok to Toh Guan, i make a call to inform MIL i was on the way there to fetch Jovian home and ask her to prepare for Jovian now... she told me, my FIL bring Jovian dwn to play so not so fast reach home, she den tell me or else put Jovian there to stay lor.... at first i was very happy as Jovian dun need to make me angry liao but i reach home, feel so quite and worry abt Jovian... as this is the first time Jovian staying there....

I call to talk to Jovian, i ask her whether she 1 2 stay there, she reply me ok! She so happy staying there, i so worry and sad without her the whole night....

Hubby came back around 8.30pm, and we go out to have our dinner, we make our way down to the coffeeshop and walk back just 2 of us, so long don't have this feeling liao..... but i told hubby i miss Jovian so much, den hubby ask me to go and fetch her myself lor!!!

At night prepared to sleep, i cnt fall asleep as i miss Jovian so much!!! but hubby sleep like a pig!!!! I only fall asleep around 1am den wake up 5am again, my head really very pain.....

Dunno y, when Jovian at home, she make me angry, i really hope she go away, dun let me see her but when she not at home, i miss her so much!!!

West Coast Park on 04/07/09

2009-07-13T22:51:00.007+08:00

Went to West Coast Park for a walk and eat dinner there... Jovian 1 2 go Mcdonald so bring her there is the best, can see pple fly kite and walk walk..... too bad we dunno hw to fly kite and i ask hubby nx time ask friends to come fly kite, he say dun 1 as he dun like this kind of outdoor activities.....haiz so sian.... like lao ah pek!!!

The scenery is so nice now.... after renovate the area there...... much better now compare to last time.....

We walk to the jetty but nobody fishing there leh....

Marina Sq & Suntec City on 28/06/09

2009-07-13T22:41:00.007+08:00

On Sun, we went to Old Airport to have our lunch den i told hubby to go Suntec City for the Young Parent Cover Look for Jovian, we went to Marina Sq for a walk 1st, and Jovian everytimes like to sit the ride so no choice have to give her sit....

After that we went straight to Suntec City for the Young Parent Cover Look Contest, but when we reach, i forgot i din bring the contest paper from the Young Parent Magazine as we last min den decide to come to take part.... we walk around and ask the counter, but they say need to buy the magazine in order to take part, but i told them i have subscribe the magazine but i forgot to bring.... they say no choice need to purchase another book lor, i told hubby it is waste of money to buy again.....

We walk around and i thinking y not buy again, can take part ma.... When we at a side subscribe for another half month for the magazine, another counter say the magazine is sold out.... "SHIT" cnt take part this year liao, cos Jovian got take part last year.... haiz.... but when we subscribe got this gift also gd la, can make cardboard play house for Jovian to play.... hehe....

When reach home, i try to make this play house, at 1st so difficult to make, later i figure out den finish it.... so pretty, after finish, Jovian run in to play liao...

Can see Jovian hiding inside the play house....

Jovian will hide inside and say "Hello Daddy" and her daddy will play with her, she so happy....

When i bring Jovian home on 03/07/09 (Fri) by bus as hubby car send for repair, when we reach our stop, on the way home, i carry bags so no hand to carry her so i told her i will hold her hand to walk, dunno she tired or what, she walk den will fall dwn, and the floor is so rough so her hand become like this... got blood come out on the way, and at that time, i no tissue in my bags, so i quickly carry her up and rush back home.....

After reach home, i wash her hand, to prevent sand on her hand, and apply the cream on her wound.... she so pain until keep crying....... I feel so pain for her too, is my fault, i also lazy to carry her la, as i carry bags....haiz... now her hands so ugly liao, until now still not recover leh, cos she feel itch and pull the dry skin out and the blood come out again....

Den MIL say must put handiplus so she wnt touch it , i told MIL dun put as the wound cnt breath, will become more worse, really now more worse, the wound "lan" liao, i quickly take out the handiplus and put cream for her.... haiz....

Science Centre

2009-07-12T09:31:00.011+08:00

We went to Science Centre on 28/06/09 (Sun).... At first is arrange to go with Jiazhen & Kenny as Jiazhen ask me to book the letter for this trip but in the end she not gtg!!!
We still go on ourself, we tot inside is the same as last time we go, but lucky they have change the concept so we don't need to see the same things......

Inside the Science Centre have this car for kids to sit and parents to push them around, is is FREE! When Jovian went in the Science Centre, she saw this car, she faster run to sit on it, at 1st i tot need to rent the car, lucky the reception told me is free, just need to write our name on their booklet for sign in & out only.... So we let Jovian sit this car and hubby push her around, she liked it very much, it better this way, we don't need to carry her.... hahaaaa.....

Jovian scare of this "Ah Pek", she see this "Ah Pek" y climbing so high..... haha....

This faces very cute, when we walk, their head will follow u around......

This is Jovian Landscape, we saw this we quickly try the spin........

Jovian saw so many ball ball, she faster run down from her car and play with the ball....

She will sit here and sit there.... hehe....

This is the Electricity Chair, can see from hubby face, i ask him to put coin to test the Electricity, but he scare....

I also wants to try the chair, but i also scare to try the Electricity.... hehe.....

We are inside the spaceship....

Jovian playing with the Laser words, she will follow the words around.....

Finally we reach this play area, at 1st i still asking hubby y this place no more, lucky we walk around and finally found here.... Jovian enjoy herself so much....

Hatching of small chick... so cute....

Mummy & Jovian...

WE enjoy this trip so much, we will try to go again as it is air-con and not hot... hehe....

Lao Po car

2009-07-10T14:09:00.004+08:00

Haiz our lao po car break dwn again.....

Just last week, send our car for repair as it keep leaking oil, den they change for us the transmitor which cost us $1k+ for 2nd hand transmitor, den now got problem again!!!!

Yesterday, i went home after work to do the housework 1st and ask hubby to go TG to drive Jovian home.... When i saw the clock, it abt 7.30pm they still haven reach home, den suddenly hubby call me... scare me, i tot what happen to them..... hubby tell me his car break dwn on the way home, now stop at Bukit Batok Rd nr 1 bus-stop and his car cannot start the engine liao!!! it still got a few distance den reach our home....

At 1st hubby tell me, he ask his brother to come drive my girl home, after that they can arrange for towing to tow our car, but after awhile hubby call me again and said, his brother still having his dinner, after dinner den come dwn to rescue him.... now my girl in the car, and it is quit dark there as the place is surround by forest and quit near to the foreign workers dormitory.... i so worry abt Jovian, and ask hubby, y cnt his brother eat later, come and drive Jovian home 1st la!!!! so fat liao, still eat so much!!!!

My hubby ask me to go to his side there to look aft Jovian 1st, so i quickly rush over there, i walk quit a long distance..... and it is quit dark.... i try to rush there fast, it take me abt 15mins to reach there... i keep looking around to see where his car, finally i saw a hazard light, i quickly go over his car, hubby had carry Jovian out of his car.... i bring vege rice for hubby to eat, as he still haven had his dinner..... but he just eat abit as he worry abt his car and no mood to eat at that place.....

I walk so far can reach there before his brother, when i reach there still need to wait for his brother there for another 15-20mins.... he really can drag his time!!!!

I really very unlucky, at home, my stomach no problem but reach there, i had a urge to go toilet pu pu... when his brother reach, he call for us the towing and said wait for the towing to come in abt 1hrs time den we follow the towing to repair store den drive us home.... i tell hubby i cnt wait any more, i need to go toilet and it is late also, Jovian 1 2 sleep so ask his brother to drive us home 1st.....

This morning we went to the repair store to pass the key to the mechanic, and let them check, what is the problem.... they say is the sensor connector got problem need to change 2 new connector and cost abt $200 - $300..... haiz need to waste money again.....

I found that, after come back from Genting to Singapore, many things happened.... At 1st is Jovian having high fever for 2 times, bring her to NUH and 2 Clinic to see doctor, den my MIL fall sick and i need to take many leave to look after Jovian, den my turn to fall sick, after that is my hubby hurt his leg, den the car..... everything happened together and spend so much money on Jun'09.....

Dunno what happen to us, every bad things will crash into us!!! need to waste so much money and leave!!! need to go pray liao......

Hope all the bad things go away and good things come to us...... hope nothing happen to us and the car liao!!!

Bottom so red & Pain!

2009-06-29T13:39:00.003+08:00

Yesterday Jovian keep 'lao sai', i think is the running nose medical which make her keep 'lao sai'.... haiz.... and she no appetite too..... She 'lao' until her bottom is so red and pain, when i carry her and touch her bottom, she will pain until cry..... haiz, no choice lor, need to put many cream on her bottom lor...... cnt really touch her lor, she will be very pain, keep crying and said to me" mummy pain pain" so heart pain to see her like this.

After putting the cream and changing her diaper, i make her drink her milk den give her eat the 'Yu Ren Sheng' 'Ba Bao Shan', she much better now, no 'lao sai' in the morning..... hope her bottom not so red liao.....

Went to Cousin hse

2009-06-20T12:05:00.010+08:00

Taken on 06/06/09 (Sat), we went to my cousin hse at Bukit Timah Rd to visit him as he got cancer on his nose, he under treatment now, much better liao, lucky he got body checkup every yrs and found out the cancer is on the early stage...

This is the 1st time we went to his hse, his hse was so..... BIG!!!, it is a private bungalow, they brought the land,rebuilt & renovation the building..... i think cost them around $700k or extra 1 more 0, i din heard him said properly!!!! Super rich lor!! If this is my hse, i surely stay at home to relax lor..... hehe.....

It is a 3 storey building, the space is so Big, can run many round in the hse!!! Jovian really enjoy herself so much... when she step in the hse, she saw so many toys on the ground floor, she so happy, she run to the toys and play, so my cousin ask her maid to take the cooking set out for her to play....

My brother girl also came dwn to play.... hehe.... the hse was so big, she can crawl everywhere she like.....Jovian like to follow her to crawl around.....haha.... naughty girl....

I bring Jovian around to take alook at the hse, the design of this hse is open concept, all the slide is transparent, this make the hse more bigger, they also have a long walkway outside the hse, i ask Jovian to walk about....

This is my sis-in-law and my niece and Jovian was behind playing with herself, she cooking now.....

Jovian busy cooking her meal....

2nd Floor
After that, my cousin bring us upstair to look around, this is their master bedroom, was also quit big.... all this precious moment collection was from his wife.....

The room was so comfortable but too bad they still having sleep in this room yet as they need to sleep with their son each to look after them......

Their toilet was also open concept so beautiful.....

This is their 2 sons room, their room was link together with a wash area in the middle of their room...

3rd Floor
They got a big balcony at 3rd floor, but it is so hot outside, their was big but one bad thing is their hse was so warm inside.....

This area was so big, can play mahjong here with friends....hehe....

This is another collection from his friends, she likes Precious Moment so much, i think this whole cabinets of Precious Moment cost about $10k, really very RICH!!!!!

Can see from the staircase, so high, everyday climb this stair really can slim dwn.....

This was taken outside the side....

Jovian was still playing the cooking set after we came dwn from upstair.....

My cousin wife just came back from her sons swimming lessons, and playing with them.... their toys was so many, all put below the staircase.... so look quit messy....

Dora Musical @ Changi Airport

2009-06-20T11:17:00.008+08:00

Taken on 07/06/09 (Sun), we went to Changi Airport to watch Dora Musical, it really a nice show, Jovian like it so much.... Although the H1N1 had reach Singapore but still got so many parent not scare of H1N1 bring their kids to watch Dora Musical.... We also not scare at all, we tot if we went there need to measure temperature but nothing was done there, i think they only scan the temperature inside the departure area....

Taken on 11/06/09 (Thur), Before gtg to sleep, Jovian said she 1 pu pu so i put her on the potty, before that hubby just do his big business and came out from the toilet, so smelly....... Jovian said to me so smelly and press on her nose ....... haha......

Taken on 13/06/09 (Sat), we stay at home the whole day as jovian was not feeling too well.... we nothing to play so i put 2 balls inside her shirt and she will said ni ni..... haha.....

On sun Jovian was having fever again, this time come with flu and cough..... haiz..... so many virus in the air.... at 1st is me having fever and cough and spread to Jovian...... need to take leave on Mon to bring Jovian to see doctor.... This month i take many leave liao, i think my boss face was not so gd liao....haiz....

Sorry Mummy.... Sorry Daddy....

2009-06-16T12:50:00.002+08:00

I find that all children is the same, when they do wrong things, they will faster said sorry to their parents....

Like Jovian, Everytimes when she do wrong things and saw my face is very angry, she will run to my side to said sorry mummy, if i din ans her, she knows i really VERY angry, she will said many times "Sorrry Mummy" to me den cry out loud cos she scare i angry and dun bother her..... until i reply her, dun be so naughty den she happy again..... hehe.....

But now, if i dun 1 2 give her anything or i dun feel like talking, she tot i angry, she will also said sorry to me..... *Faint* I really not angry with her but she feel that if she said sorry mummy is much more save.... hehe.....

This matter is more better then beating her, cos when ever i ask her dun do things which i dun like, she purposely do it and let me see! i so angry, i will take my cane and cane her leg, she wnt cry, she only said dun want mummy..... after that when i went off, she will do it again..... haiz.... hw i beat her, she also wnt cry or scare... i really beat her very hard, she not pain, i can feel the pain..... This girl is really very naughty.... i really dun feel like beating her, but she really make me very angry!!!

But sometimes Jovian was quit cute at doing her things, she will talk to her toy elephant and kiss her elephant..... when i cook, she will bring her cooking set and sit at the kitchen to cook with me.....hehe....

By the way, Jovian is sick again, yesterday bring her to see doctor, she having fever, flu & cough.... i spread to her.... haiz.... when she have fever, i quit scare, cos she have 2 fit before so now she fever, i will try to keep her temperture low, i will sponge her and measure her temperture many times..... Her fever had come dwn, only cough, at night, me & Jovian like playing musical, will cough together.... hubby said he not enough sleep.... haiz no choice leh..... but Jovian cough is more serious, she will cough until gtg to vomit, i will wake her up to drink some water to cool dwn.... sometimes, she cough until cry, cos she feel so pain on her chest....haiz.... so hurting to see her like this.... it my fault to spread to her.....

That all for the update, will upload when i have the time, too lazy to upload photo cos it take up so much times...

That all for the update, will upload when i have the time, too lazy to upload photo cos it take up so much times...

Mum is the BEST in the world!

2009-06-13T11:45:00.003+08:00

I feel that my mum is the BEST mum in the world! She will help me in all way, although i marry liao and seldom give her money, but she will still buy things on sat and came to my hse to cook for us to eat, after that she will go off without eating..... i paid her money but she dun 1 2 take from me.... when i told her, i miss her soup, she will surely cook for me on Sat...... and she will also boil 'liang che' for us to drink when she know me & Jovian coughing.....

She always buy beautiful clothing & shoes for Jovian.... almost all Jovian clothing was brought by mum.... Everytimes i will ask Jovian, who buy this clothing, she will say pao pao.... but sometime she will say ah ma.... i will feel so angry and tell her, all her things is brought by PAO PAO! Ah Ma din buy anything for Jovian before!!! have la, only 2 - 3 clothing.....

At first, Jovian knows how to walk, my MIL or FIL din even buy a shoe for Jovian, and expect us must bring a shoe to her place, so Jovian can walk..... Only grandchildren also wnt wants to use their money to buy things for Jovian..... I think Jovian toys all given from her relatives, they also din buy before!!!! Dun talk abt them liao, make me BOIL again!!!!

Come back to my mum again..... i feel that my mum was too gd, all my sis-in-law will take advantage of her so i alway protect her from hurting..... She hurt most is from my 2nd brother as my mum precious my 2nd brother the most but his scare of his wife the most too!!! and his wife will try to bully my mum when i move out from there, i will scold my brother and he will scold his wife, i feel so happy that he will scold his wife for mum but mum alway ask me dun bother so much, dun break the relationship with my sibling but i cnt let my mum bully by these STUPID women!!! Sometimes she bully my mum until she cry out cos my mum is quit weak, she wnt quarrel with them as she dun 1 my brother to fight with their wife!!! I think son alway listen to wife and wnt care abt hw mum feel!!! so i keep protect mum from bully. i wnt let my mum bully by my 2 sis-in-law!!!!!

Those who dare to bully my mum better be CAREFUL!!!!

I LOVE U MUM!!!! *MUCK*

PS: I never say this 3 words to my mum before, can only say here....hehe.....

Jovian new toy & Outing to Jurong Safra

2009-06-06T11:17:00.011+08:00

Brought this tent with balls from Giant on 29/05/09 (Fri), as Jovian likes to play balls but too bad nobody play with her so she likes to ask her dad to play with her.....

Jovian likes to hide inside when i ask her to drink milk, or she naughty, i gtg to beat her, she also will run inside to hide..... hiaz.....

Our hse was too small for her tent, no place to put the tent..... i put in the living room, she will knock here and there.... no choice... hse too small.....

Jovian hand very itchy now, like to touch there and that..... scold and beat her, she also not scare, still keep touching and throw all on the floor....

Can see, Jovian hair become longer, can tie all up liao.... so pretty.... hehe.....

Ask her to take photo, she give me a funny face.... haha....

Taken on 30/05/09(Sat), After half day work, went to MIL hse to fetch Jovian home, when she reach home, she will run to her tent which i put inside the room to play..... This room is full of things, mostly is Jovian toys and old clothing.....

This is new clothing which my mum buy as Jovian now likes Dora design...

So long din take photo with Jovian, so for fun, i catch Jovian and take photo together, but she keep wanting to run away.....

We went to Jurong safra on sat, as it is their Grand Opening on Sat, inside got 1 indoor playground, look quit fun, when we reach there, it is closed, so i cnt let Jovian go in to play.... too bad... just let play small playground outside....

This is the outer look of the indoor playground, so fun leh....

Jovian wants to go in to play.....

So many pple went to visit this newly open Safra club...

After that we went to IMM to have our dinner.... At 1st, we only thinking of having our dinner at Kopitiem, but got lot of pple..... no choice, we choose to eat at Fish & Co., so long din eat liao, really miss the Seafood platte.

Jovian start again, touch here and there.... she cnt stop touching, after that, she will ask her daddy to carry her down from her high chair to walk around.... haiz.....

This is our favourite dinner....

Jovian Birthday on 28/05/09

2009-06-05T16:51:00.007+08:00

On 28/05/09 (thurs), Jovian actual Birthday, i brought a small cake for her. After work, i went to Bukit Batok to buy this chocolate cake, this cake was not so tasty then the 1 i brought from Prima Deli, at 1st i thinking of gtg to Jurong Point to buy, but it too far, so i just brought from the cake at BB.

After reach home, i ask Jovian to take photo, she dun 1, i think she tired liao..... she keep hiding from my camera....

When i bring the cake to put on the table, she behave well, and sit properly on the chair to watch her Birthday cake....

I said WAH! she also follow me..... haha.....

She 1 2 touch her cake, i tell her haven sing birthday song, dun touch 1st......

I testing to sing Birthday song for Jovian, she clap her hand.... hehe..... so cute....

Den hubby put the candles on the cake, can see Jovian serious face....

Hubby & me sing the birhtday song for her again, she feel so shy.... haha.....

Hubby teach Jovian to blow the candles, she finally know how to blow by herself....

I cutting the cake with Jovian, as her 1st cake was cut by her daddy, so i tell hubby to take photo of me & Jovian cutting the cake....

I try to take a family photo but take until like this, haiz.....

Happy Birthday to Jovian

2009-05-28T15:26:00.003+08:00

Today is Jovian 2nd yrs old Birthday, hope Jovian be healthy and be a gd girl!

Update on Jovian 2 yrs old:
1) She knows how to say in statement.... like: Daddy go away, Mummy go working, Aunty/ uncle come play, i dun 1, go mei mei hse, go pao pao hse, .....

2) She likes to beat pple, especially her ah ma, she can pull her ah ma hair, and slap her face!

3) She likes to go my mum hse to play with mei mei, she will ask us to bring her to mei mei hse.

4) She is more & more stubborn.

5) She scare me when i said i gtg to beat her if she naughty again, but she wnt scare her daddy, keep beating her daddy very hard..... haha....

6) Sometimes she will tell us she 1 2 pu pu on the potty, and sometimes she will bluff us, when i putting her to sleep and she dun 1 2 sleep, she will said she 1 pu pu, but she sit on her potty for very long, nothing come out.

7) She can sleep on her bed at night without putting her on the yao lan. Now i train her to sleep on her bed at night as she gtg to childcare soon, cnt sleep in the yao lan liao.... but i need to accompany her to sleep. she will turn here & there and talk to her 'best friend' 'phant phant'... i ask her to sleep, she still talking, in the end i fall asleep myself.... "faint", when i wake up in 30mins time, she fall asleep liao....

8) She likes her 'phant phant' so much, she like to hug , kiss and talk to her 'phant phant'.

9) At night, before gtg to sleep, she will ask her daddy to on air con for her, as the weather is really very warm.

10) She likes to go 'kai kai', shopping so much, every weekend must bring her out or else, i will BECOME siao at home!

I think that all about Jovian, will update again, when i remember.....

Last but not least, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY BEAUTIFUL AND CUTE JOVIAN!

Celebrate Jovian birthday on 23/05/09 (Sat)

2009-05-27T22:04:00.007+08:00

I decided to celebrate Jovian birthday on 23/05/09 (sat), but too bad Jovian having fever starting from 18/05/09 until 24/05/09 (Sun).....

On Sat, i prepared to continue the celebration for her birthday cos Jovian fever was back to normal, but Jovian whole body was cover with rashes (Chinese means that the virus is out liao) and our friends got children, i think they also scare that Jovian will transmit the fever virus to their kids.... so i cancel the party again..... haiz....

As the cake cnt cancel liao, so i just invite my mum and hubby family member come..... in the end only hubby father & brother come..... my mum dun 1 2 stay cos she 1 2 let my MIL come and my mum also dun 1 2 see her but in the end she also din come... Jovian from birth until 2 yrs old celebration, she din come before!!!! i also dun expect her to come also!!!!! She dun come better but now is hubby brother wife also din come!!!WTF, We are their eldest brother and sis-in-law, dun give face to us!!!! She rather go to her mother hse den come to my hse!!! cnt she go her mother hse on Sun!!!! i dun 1 2 ask too much from his brother..... I just tell my hubby, nx time they got children, dun ever ask me to go, i wnt GO!!!! She same with my MIL dun give face, i also wnt give face!!!!

Too bad mum buy all the things for curry and bee hoon den she go back home..... I tell my mum i cook myself, so she can rest..... this is the 1st time i cook curry, i peel off the skin on the chicken as it is very fat and oily when cooking curry.....

After cooking the curry, i ask hubby to try the taste of the curry, he said gd but the bee hoon is too dry as this is also the 1st time i cook the whole packet of bee hoon.... i put less water liao.... but i think if pour the curry on the bee hoon is ok ma..... hehe....

This cake was order from Jurong Point, Prima Deli. At 1st i dun dare to order, but i saw many pple order from there.... i ask hubby 1 2 order from there.... he said why not... i tell him, last time Prima Deli got problem ma.... he said very long time ago liao la, now can eat.... so i order.... the design is so beautiful.......

We had the cake cutting but din sing song for Jovian as all is adult..... haiz..... i try the cake, it really very nice den any other cake shop which i try...... the sponge is soft and nice.... really worth it! Too bad only 4 of us enjoy this cake....

Can see from the photo, i change Jovian in her new shirt, which write "Jovian Sha'nn Just Turned 2", the shirt is really very pretty and the material is gd....

When Jovian saw the cake, she 1 2 touch it, i ask hubby to carry her away....

when hubby carry her away, Jovian was angry and slap her daddy.... i quickly scold her as hubby wnt really scold her..... Jovian was having fever or sick, she do wrong, i wnt beat her as she feel sick so her temper is bad, i know.... but this time round, her temper is more & more worse..... she likes to beat pple, she likes to slap pple face very hard..... she very stubborn now, likes her daddy! Ask her anything she will reply "Mai" in hokkien means NO!

this is our family photo....

Father 1 2 take photo with Jovian but Jovian dun let him carry her, she dun likes him to carry, dunno y?? I think is his hand got many hair so when he carry her, Jovian feel very rough.... hehe.....

Mummy & Jovian.... too bad Jovian din smile...

Daddy & Jovian.... Jovian no mood to look at the camera.... haiz....

Jovian was accompany by her dad to blow the candles.....

Jovian cutting the cake....

After the cake cutting, i bring out the bee hoon and curry for hubby father & brother.... I tell them beforehand, this is the 1st time i cook curry, hope taste well..... hubby brother reply me, the curry not spicy enough.... WTF... i myself and hubby taste it, it quit ok! He can ask his wife to cook for him la, treat him eat, still talk so much!!!! his wife dunno how to cook, he more worse, eat shit better!!! Whole family members is the same, like SHIT!!!!
I dun like hubby family menbers at all, everytimes need to go there and act friendly so tired.....

After the dinner, hubby ask me to pack some curry & cake for his mum, i just anyhow pack some only...... dun come still 1 2 eat my things!!!

Feel so bad for Jovian, as 1 2 prepared a small party for her, in the end nothing for her.... haiz.... need to wait until 3 yrs old liao......

Fever @ 39 degree and having FIT

2009-05-22T08:13:00.001+08:00

Jovian suddenly having high fever on Mon (18/05/09), MIL called me in the afternoon and inform me that Jovian was having fever, i tot she just feel her hot den tell me she having fever, so i did not go home and continue to work.... but she called me again at 4.30pm, and tell me Jovian temperature had reach 38 degree.... i cnt go home at this point cos i knock off at 5.30pm..... so i ask her to look after her properly for me, i will reach home ard 6.00pm....

When i reach there, Jovian was still playing with her uncle.... so i did not bring Jovian to see doctor as i still have the fever medicine at home.... so we wait for hubby to drive us home.... so i can feed Jovian medicine fast....

At night, i check Jovian temparature, it shoot up to 39 degree, i use towel to clean her body, her temperature come dwn abit...... nx day, i ask hubby to drive us to polyclinic to see doctor as the medicine is more better than private clinic. Private clinic doctor dun dare to give strong medicine.....

Now becos of the virus, we reach Polyclinic, we need to wear mask, Jovian dun 1 2 wear, so i put the mask on her 'Best friend'.... haha....

After seeing doctor, the doctor give me 2 medicine for fever, 1 strong and 1 normal....we put Jovian in my MIL care and i feed Jovian the medicine, but she throw out abit..... den we go out to buy Jovian Birthday things.... we reach MIL hse ard 2.45pm, when we reach there Jovian was sleeping, but she heard our voice, she wake up, so i feed her the strong medicine as her temperature is still very high..... den we stay there for awhile to talk to MIL and MIL carry Jovian.....

Suddenly Jovian started to shivering... Jovian having FIT, me and MIL were so scared, i quickly carry Jovian over and put her on the bed sideway, cos she got Fit before and the doctor teach me hw to do ..... putting her sideway so she can breath..... my MIL quickly put her finger inside Jovian mouth to prevent Jovian bites her tongue... MIL still ask hubby to take spoon to put inside Jovian mouth, as her finger is very pain..... but hubby still stand there and see what we doing, as he still very blurr, dunno what happen.... "FAINT" we screaming around for hubby help but he very slow.... when he about to move, Jovian wakr up.....lucky after about 5mins Jovian wake up herself and started crying very loud..... i feel so relieve to see Jovian crying..... really scare me.....

Before that, i got tell my MIL if Jovian temperature still very high, need to use towel to sponge her.... but she din do it.... she only let her sleep.... as our experience, Jovian temperature cannot reach 39 degree, if reach 39, she will get FIT..... after that we bring Jovian home.... she still very hot..... i sponge her many times, after our dinner, FIL & MIL came to our hse to visit Jovian.... as my FIL very worry about, after his work, he surely come to our hse to visit Jovian, he care very much about Jovian as Jovian is his 1st grandchildren....

i sponge Jovian many times, but her temperature still keep in 39, so i decide to bring Jovian to hospital.... i pack all the things and we set off to hospital with my in-law.... we reach there, so many pple waiting outside, we went in the emergency, Jovian temperature still 38.6degree, so they arrange us to register 1st, now the bill is $90.00, last year only $80.00, so expensive leh!!! After that, we wait at the children section, only two pple allow inside, so i ask in-law to go home 1st as FIL need to work....

The doctor tell us the proper method to handle the fit.... just put her in a flat surface and put her sideway so she can breath or if she vomit, wnt choke her breathing.....she tell us dun put anything inside Jovian mouth if fit come.... as this will block her breathing... (lucky Mil put her finger inside Jovian, nothing happen, she some more 1 2 put spoon inside Jovian mouth!!!!) The doctor said if she bites herself, will recover in 2 to 3 days, but if block her breathing more worse... den the doctor, also check her leg and hand joint to see whether got affect her joint and muscle... lucky everything is fine.... to confirm what cosing her high fever, the doctor also check her urine, everything ok! so is related to normal fever virus... i ask the doctor, is it that the medicine is too strong for her den she get fit.... the doctor say no.... is that her fever is very high, den suddenly we feed her the medicine, and her small brain cnt get the message and get the fit.... the doctor 1 2 prove to us that no related to the strong medicine, she feed Jovian the medicine, and let her rest and take test for her urine.... after all the test, we reach home ard 12am... we take leave the nx day to look after Jovian....

The whole night, i on the air-con, and sponge her, as her fever still very high... i sponge her and pull up her shirt up to cool her dwn.... i wake her up to take medicine in 4 hrs time..... for this past two days, i dun really rest... also having cough and flu.... some more my period come, really so tired.... hubby take leave, also din help, he just sit there and watch tv and rest.... haiz....

On wed night, hubby mum ask us to go their hse to eat dinner, i tell him Jovian fever still very high, still need to go there.... haiz.... when we reach there, MIL try to feed Jovian drink soup but Jovian dun 1, at 1st the doctor got mention to us, her throat was swollen, but she din give us any medicine for her swollen throat.... after dinner, we stay there for a while, den she keep mention is Jovian scare of something den create her to had fever, she say many things, i dun mind but she suddenly shoot out again and said she go my mum hse on sun got scare there anot, "WHAT THE FUCK", go there can scare what, everythings must push to my mum there!!!! i so angry, but i cnt quarrel with her, i just tell her, is Jovian go there and scare my niece!!!! I tell her is hubby wife be4 that got fever and Jovian got the virus from her!!!!

After that, in-law say they 1 2 go to ask the prayer about Jovian sickness.... lucky i say 1 2 go with them as i know, these prayer surely will give them "fu" to burn for her to drink, after the prayer, i tell my MIL & hubby, dun anyhow feed Jovian these kind of things!!! i say if take the "fu" bath her nevermind but cannot give her drink the burn things!!! my MIL ganna 'SHIT', she shoot me and said den dun come to pray la!!!! by the way, not i say 1 2 come leh, is them say they 1 2 pray for Jovian!!!! den i keep the "fu" inside my bag....

Yesterday, Jovian temperature had come dwn to normal, but she still no appetite as her throat still swollen, when she walk, she not really balance as she no strength to walk.... i ask her to drink water, she said dun 1, ask her to drink milk, she said dun 1.... haiz.... no choice....

Today, i take half day leave again, later bring her to see doctor again, see whether got any throat swollen medicine....

This is Jovian T-shirt for her Birthday, her fever is dwn but she no strength yet, dunno still 1 2 celebrate for her tomorrow... but i already order the cake for her....i think will proceed for her, as everything was really liao.... just a small party for her lor....

Mosquito bites, extention Mascara and mum hse...

2009-05-21T22:42:00.009+08:00

Jovian was biten by the mosquito on her face, hands and legs.... haiz....

Brought this mascara online, really can extend very long, as it content 2 tube in the box, 1 is mascara and 1 is fibre for extention.... it mention is waterproof, but i use it, just in touch of water, it will smudge..... as Singapore weather is so hot, i wipe my sweat below my eye, and accidently touch the mascara, it smudge.... but never lor, as i use it when i go to work and go air-con place....

Brought this durain donut from Jurong Point, so yummy ..... and the design so cute.....

Went to Mum hse on Sun (17/05/09), i bring the Play-pen to mum hse, as she said when she put Yun Fei on the walker, she keep climbing out, and she also fall out from the yao lan..... i tell my mum, when she do things put Yun Fei in the Play-Pen is the best.... she cannot climb out.... hahaha....

Naughty Jovian said she also wants to go inside to play with Mei Mei.... At 1st we put Yun Fei dwn, she so scare, she started to cry..... so my mum carry her out, so i put Jovian inside to play herself.....

After that, we try to put Yun Fei inside again, she ok liao.... but Jovian keep pushing her and hugged her....

Jovian was so happy playing with mei mei, and she likes to go my mum hse, everytimes will mention she wants to go pao pao hse to see mei mei.....

Jovian Birthday is coming...

2009-05-15T11:43:00.005+08:00

Haiz.... Jovian Birthday is coming, dunno hw to celebrate for her.... i think still the same, will invite some friends and family over to our house for a small celebration on 23/05/09 (Sat).

I saw from a SMH mummy that she brought a T-shirt which got printing of name in the T-shirt, so i also order a T-shirt for Jovian, it's really so special when Jovian wear it on her Birthday Party........ i will collect the t-shirt by nx week, hope can make it on time.... so Jovian can show it off.... haha.....

This is the design of some t-shirt, at first i also wants to put Name: Jovian Sha'nn and "terrible 2s" but hubby find that the words "terrible" is not so nice for a kids, so he ask me to change to "just turned 2".... haiz.... hubby is really old fashion..... I told him, terrible 2 means when kids reach 2, they will become more naughty but he still dun let me to put.... no choice.....

Den now i need to choose the cake for Jovian Birthday, headache again, so i decide to order Jelly Cake for Jovian.... never order before, so lucky to know Charmaine from SMH, i ask her for the picture and contact no. of the Jelly Cake, she help me quit alot, i dun need to think too much..... hehe.... but for the cake design, i still need to decide..... all so cute.... but i think i will order DORA as Jovian like this character now.....

Ok, for cake had settle, now is decide for the food... as not inviting much friends, so i decide to order KFC & Pizza, and my mum will cook Curry & Bee Hoon..... lucky my mum will help me out on that day, as for my MIL, she coming to Jovian birthday, can say very lucky liao!! Jovian Full Month & 1st yr old Birthday, she never come before!!!! BUT SHE DUN COME BETTER, MY MUM ALSO DUN 1 2 SEE HER FACE, HAHA!!!!

Will update more on the actual Birthday on nx Sat.....

Genting Trip ~ 08/05/09 to 10/05/09

2009-05-12T13:08:00.000+08:00

Taken on 03/05/09 (Sun), went to Marina Sq for Lunch and to see whether got anything to buy for Genting Trip......

After that, we went to my mum hse, cos mum said she brought Jovian shirt and jean for her early birthday gift and can wear it to Genting..... Almost all Jovian clothing is brought by my mum, my mum is the BEST in the world, compare to the WORSE MIL.... nothing brought from them....

The Dora clothing was so beautiful, Jovian liked it very much, this is the 1st time Jovian wearing jean, so pretty leh..... hehe..... Mum also brought a sleeping wear for Jovian, it is disney design, all is expensive but mum still brought it for Jovian......

This is my eldest Brother second daughter, Yun Fei.... i think she now abt 9 - 10 months, she just learn hw to sit by herself, when we went there my mum put her to sit by herself on the floor, more stable now.... Jovian likes to sit beside her and hugged her......

Yun Fei is so funny, i taking photo of her, she will blink her eyes and make funny face.... hehe....

Taken on 08/05/09 (Fri), waked up at 3.00am, prepared to set off for our Genting Trip with Hubby Friends.... so excited as this is the 1st time we went oversea with friends..... They said they will reach our hse around 4am but we wait until 4.30am den they reach..... wait until we gtg to fall asleep again..... After we went to opposite my hse ESSO station to wait for another friends, still need to wait, they reach around 4.45am..... Jovian wake up when i put her inside the car....

Lucky we go by Tuas checkpoint, so early, not even a car there.....

Hubby friend car is a seven seater car, so all the seat is occupied... we cnt bring so many things so i only pack 3bags cos their boots is so small, they got 6 pple so their bags is so many, lucky that our bags still can put....

Drive about 2hrs, we rest for toilet and breakfast break.....

Before reaching KL, we went for toilet break at ESSO station again.... we saw Macdonald there so we went in to eat again........ KL is extremely HOT den Singapore weather.....

Everytime ask Jovian to smile, she will smile until like this..... so ugly....

Reach KL, Twin Tower, too bad no time to go there..... haiz.... never go before.....

On the way up the hill to Genting......

When on the way up the hill, Steven maid vomit all the way.....

Steven stop on the way up the hill to take photo, too bad only the guy can go out to take photo, our children is sleeping so the ladies need to stay inside the car...... the scenery is so beautiful and cooling, although it is hot outside.....

This is the 2 cars gtg to Genting together, but too bad only we stay for 3 days 2 night, their indian friends stay only 2 days 1 night......

Here we reach Genting, First World Hotel...... so happy.... we took about 7hrs to reach as we stop for 3 times on the way.....

After reaching Genting we still need to wait for 1hrs plus for the room.... so we went to their cafe to have our lunch.... the food is not nice!

Jovian dun let me to carry her cos she wants to run about with her 'ge ge'.....

Finally got a room for us.... but this is a Deluxe room, nothing to see outside, only can see window from another room, so we thinking of changing the room.... i thought change Deluxe View Room can see the theme park, but no high floor for us, so we only stay at 6th floor, outside view is carpark.... if know cannot see theme park, i rather dun waste extra money to stay Deluxe View Room!!!

This is the photo of Deluxe Room, i forgot to take clear photo of Deluxe View Room.... hehe....

This is Deluxe View Room, can see the Genting Hotel.... Jann book 2 connection room, as they dun have enough space for the maid to sleep and ask the maid to sleep with us, their room already got 2 kids and their mum with them.... they got bring extra 2 inflatable mattress so the maid can sleep on the mattress on the floor, this also can save money for extra bed charges...... it's also easy for the maid to look after the kids, when we go to Casino at midnight.....

At 2pm plus, we inside the room, Jovian resting on the bed, she so tired.... we decided to rest for awhile den go out to eat dinner....

Around 5pm plus, we went dwn to walk and have find out what to eat for dinner.....

We went outside the Hotel to take photo, it cool but not cold outside....

We went to the First World Hotel, indoor theme park to look around.... Jovian saw all the rides, she wants to play but we tell the kids, we will come dwn early in the morning after breakfast to play.....

Ask Jovian to take photo, she keep looking at the rides on the top.... haiz..... she so busy..... hehe....

After that we went to have our dinner at Kenny Roger.... The service there is like FUCK..... the muffin not nice, the portion is less.... so more, we order 1 half chicken and 1 1/4 chicken, they give us 2 1/4 chicken, we inform them den they give us, another 1/4 for us.....

For the bill more worse, we ask for separated bills, but they combine the bills together.... we ask them to separate the bills again.... they bills us wrongly again.... we only order 1 half & 1/4 chicken with coffee & Ice Lemon Tea.... they bill us, 1 half, 2 1/4 chicken, coffee & bottle of water!!! I tell them again, bill wrongly again!!!!
waste my time leh.... after give them money, also need to wait for very long for the receipt and change.... although not many pple there.... after received the change, i DUN even give them tip as their service is SHIT!!!!!

After dinner, we went back to hotel room to make the kids to sleep so we can go to casino......
We need to accompany Jovian to sleep, so she will sleep with us, but before that when we in the bed, pretend to sleep, she will walk around and talk and play with herself.... after awhile, she feel tired, she will climb up the bed and sleep.....

For connection room, good point is the maid can look after 3 kids in the 2 rooms after we went for casino but bad point is when we close the connection door of our, they din close, their kids laughing, crying or playing, the sound came from their room is very loud, we cnt sleep at all..... Jovian also need quite place, den she will sleep..... whole night, is their sound.... really very irritating.... we also cnt sleep.... cos we intend to sleep for awhile den go casino.... so tired.... if i got choice, i wnt choose any connection room with them.... but they need to put their maid in our room and look after the kids at night, we no choice but to let them decide the room.....

At about 11pm plus, we went to play bowling as Steven din bring his shoe, only got slipper, so cnt go in casino, we play bowling cos can rent shoe from them, after the bowling, he continue wearing the shoe, and put his slipper back to his room.... we went to casino with his mum 1st, the First World Hotel casino is so small, nothing to play... so after they came, we went to Genting Hotel , there is much bigger.... no is really very big casino....

We played until 2am plus, we have separated in the casino, so hubby and me after casino we went to Mary Brown to have our late Super.... i order porridge and hubby order chicken burger..... the Spicy Seafood Porridge is really very nice.... too bad only eat for 1 time....

I cnt sleep as i forgot to bring my small pillow.... hehe....

Early in the morning, 09/05/09 (Sat), really very cold in the room.... i only can sleep for awhile den wake up ard 6am plus to watch TV and wait for them to wake up, Jovian wake up ard 8am, after that, i changed for her and brush her teeth, i dun dare to shower for her as it really very cold.... after hubby wake up to look after Jovian, den i went to shower.... Really very cold leh!!!

After we prepared everything liao, we still need to wait for hubby friends, as they wake up late.... the buffer breakfast is only until 10.30am, lucky we in time for the buffer.....

Can see the PIG, wake up liao, still fall asleep again!!! cos he also din sleep well, as dunno why, Jovian will suddenly cry very loud in the middle of the night, and scare us, i pat her and she will fall asleep, den she will cry very loud again..... scare us again!!

She cry for 2 nights, i think she scare by a stupid women, as 1st day, after dinner, when Jovian walked herself, suddenly a muslim ladies with whole clothing black in colour and only can see the eyes, she came over and stand in front of Jovian and said Jovian very cute and 1 2 hugged Jovian, Jovian so scared cos she 1st time saw this kind of human being, only got eyes, she cry out very loud!!! STUPID women, wear until like this, still wants to go near children to scare them!!!!!

This is our buffer breakfast, the food is ok la for the egg & hotdog, but everything is egg.... the rest is not so nice....the bun is not gd, i din eat, the bee hoon no taste..... but my hubby said the coffee is very gd....

Everytime ask Jovian to take photo and smile, she will smile until like this..... haiz.... like her Ah Ma..... so FAKE!!! haha......

After breakfast, we went to buy the ticket for the Indoor Unlimited Rides, we play for the whole day.... really very fun there.....

This is Steven and his family.....

This is our 1st ride....

View from the Deer rides....

After that, we went to sit the train ride....

This is 3rd ride....

Almost all the photo is hubby & Jovian.... cos hubby dun really know how to take photo so i dun let him take.... haiz....

I told Jovian, she smile until so ugly, i ask her just open her mouth more better..... hehe.... den she open until like this.....

This is 4th Ride, caterpillar.... round about to see the view indoor and outdoor.....

The outdoor theme park so much fun.... too bad nobody dare to play.... so i also cnt play.... haiz....

We stay in this First World Hotel.....

This is my favourite ride, too bad nobody accompany to play outdoor....

The view is really very beautiful....

Intend to play this with Steven on the last day, but he say no time so din play.... wasted.....

We went to sit bumper car... so much fun.....

After all the rides, we went back our room to rest, as it is sleeping time for the kids again.... we settle our lunch by eating maggi mee.... cos too tired to go to look for lunch.....

When we wake up ard 3pm plus, outside become so cold, all cover by the cloud and haze..... we go there for 3 days 2 night, i think Saturday is the colder day, other days is so warm.....

After that we continue our rides again.....

I accompany Jovian to sit in the carriage.... can see from my hubby photo taking skill, so i din let him to take photo.....

This ride need to pay extra charges as not including in our unlimited rides..... but Jovian likes it very much so worth it.....

We went to watch 4D animation, so Jovian was taken care by Steven & his Wife.... After we finish the show, is their turn to watch, hubby, me & the maid looking after the 3 kids.... really very headache, as the big boy run, the 2 mei mei follow him..... really so tired looking after them.....

It really very cold that day, when we outside the Hotel, we feel so cold...... can see from the photo, the haze....

Ask them to sit together to take photo, they run here & there, so different to take photo of them... haiz.....

Hubby & me wear short, so cold leh.... our leg hair all stand up.... haha.....

We saw there got stall selling Thai food, so we decided to settle our dinner there, it cold so eat spicy food is the best....

We went to sit the Caterpillar again.... we 1 2 feel the cold air and haze..... haha.....

In the middle of the way, the caterpillar suddenly stop, already so cold, it still stop in the middle, all of us so cold.... we can still made fun.... i scream for help, dun trap us here...... hehe...... after that it start to move, when it gtg to reach it stop again..... we scream again...... so funny.....

It so cold outside, but still got many pple playing the outdoor theme park.....

This is the hauted hse, outside got 1 gorilla preforming so cute.....

Finally got family photo at Genting....

We went up to sit the Merry-Go-Round, hubby take photo for us..... this ferris go many round, i think got 10 round, sit until i 1 2 vomit!!!

After all the rides is night time again, we went back to our room to settle the kids again, after they fall asleep, we went out to play the roller coaster as the rides for indoor closed at 1am, we sit for 4 times.... so fun..... too bad nobody take photo for us.....

After that we head up to Genting Hotel to play JackPot, total we lose $100+ sing dollar, lucky i drag my hubby out or else, he will continue to play.... i so tired, when i play the Jackpot i gtg to fall asleep.... we reach our room ard 3.15am, sun still need to wake up early to have our breakfast before book out....

When we reach the room, Jovian wake up and 1 2 drink milk, lucky we came back on time.... after feed her is 3.30am liao, i make her sleep, den i try to sleep.... i think ard 4 -5am, Jovian wake up to cry very loud again, i try to pat her to sleep, she total wake up 3 times to cry.... i dun really dare to sleep, as i scare she wake up to cry again, and distube everybody, so i pat her all the way.... den suddenly i heard crying sound more louder den Jovian, is Steven girl cry this time round.... she can cry non stop..... i think she cry for 15-30mins.... my god, now Jovian sleep, and that girl cry.... i dun need to sleep liao.....

i only rest for awhile, den 8am liao, so Jovian wake up and distube me, i change for her and make milk for her to drink, after that i shower and brush teeth..... and still need to wait for Jann they all to prepare..... hubby wait until fall asleep again.....

we wait until 9.50am den go to eat buffer breakfast, almost gtg to closed so not much things to eat.....

After breakfast ard 11am, Jann went back their room to wake Steven up as gtg to check out before 12pm.... we went dwn ard 11.45am to put the card in the express check out box, den hubby they all bring the bags dwn to the car, and left Steven mum & me to look after 3 kids, MY GOD, gtg headache again.... his mum also headache.... haha.... we keep chasing them can liao....

After they came up, we went to Genting Hotel to play arcade.... we play the clown which need us to throw the ball inside the mouth and score the points and got tickets come out and use the points to change a doll, we accummilate abt 600 points and change a Elephants toy for Jovian, but too bad Jovian saw us play, after that she fall asleep on hubby shoulder and din see the toy....

Steven said no time, so we rush back to First World Hotel to take the car, and continue our jouney back to Singapore, we started on 2.00pm, and head straight dwn to Melacca.... it took about 3hrs to reach Melacca, i sit under my leg cramp and my buttom pain.... as Jovian sit on leg and sleep.

We reach Melacca ard 5pm, and have our dinner there, although it a small place there for car parking there for rest and toilet break, but the food there is very nice.....

After dinner, we continue our jouney again, it take abt 1.5hrs to JB, we went by causeway checkpoint, lucky not jam.... we reach Singapore ard 7pm.....

At first, we got discuss to go JB Giant to buy things but i think Steven forgot as he keep rushing for times, haiz.... nothing to buy back to Singapore.....

For this trip, i can said it's quit fun for the children but tired for the parents...... Genting is not as cold as last time.... now is quit hot there, accept for Saturday afternoon.....

Outing on Apr'09

2009-05-03T21:31:00.023+08:00

Taken on 10/04/09 (Good Friday), we went to E-Hub, Explorer Kids to meet Steven Family..... cos they let their children play there so ask us to bring Jovian along, we went there only let Jovian play the ball... really not worth it to bring children there just playing the ball.... cos quit expensive for the entry, calculate by per hrs charges....

After that, we bring the kids to Downtown east to sit the rides, this rides is $3 per rides, adult accompany the children for the rides is free...... Jovian likes it very much....

This merry-go-round, whenever i go up, i will feel dizzy.... cos it turn round & round.... cannot eat liao go up, surely vomit out.....

After the sitting the horse, Jovian said she wants to change to sitting the cup seat..... Jovian really know how to relax herself...... haha.....

I take photo for the kids outside Wild Wild Wet, we arrange to go there for nx outing......

After that, Steven ask us to go his house for a visit... so we go there.... Jovian was happily play with his kids.... but this big 'ge ge' keep pushing the 'mei mei', so i keep pulling Jovian away from him..... or else hurt Jovian... cos Jovian is very weak, when children push her to hard, she will knock her head again.....

U see he pushing Jovian with the ball.... so pain leh!!! Lucky the maid ask him to stop......

Taken on 12/04/09 (Sun), went to Zoo with Jiazhen & Kenny, we can go to Zoo for free, so we go there many times to let Jovian see the animals and play water there..... This times round only we 2 go, so we ask Jiazhen & Kenny to come along.... we got 2 card, can 8pple go, but that day only we 4 go.... cos Jiali dun wants to go... haiz.... wasted....

We arrange to go there @ 10am, but in the end i called Jiazhen, she still haven wake up, lucky i called her before hand cos i knows her pattern.... so we meet around 11.30am.... when we reach it started to rain.... haiz.... so unlucky men..... we bring umbrella go in.... we walk with Jiazhen & kenny 1st to see animals 1st.... our intention for this trip is bring Jovian to play water there cos we gtg to Zoo again on 25/04/09 with my mum.....

When the rain stop, we quickly bring Jovian to Kidzworld and ask Jiazhen & Kenny to walk themself to watch the show, so we separate our way....

Taken on 19/04/09 (Sun), we went to Vivo to pay our bill, so we bring Jovian to Toy 'u'rus to play the toys there....

Jovian liked this baby toy so much, she talk to him and pat him to sleep.... haha..... but in the end i din buy for her cos after reach home she will throw at a side and wnt play liao....

Taken on 25/04/09 (Sat), Zoo again.... very boring right..... no choice.... cos mum very long time din go to Zoo liao, she only free on Sat, so we decided to bring her there.....

I think we went to zoo so many times... everytimes, this 'ah meng' relative dun likes to look at pple.... i think he feel shy or what.... or hide at the side, which we cnt see him only saw his backside..... this times round..... my mum really very lucky, can see his face..... so i happily push Jovian near it to take alook, at 1st Jovian not scare.... but a while later, i think he keep looking at Jovian, and it size is bigger than Jovian.... so Jovian feel scare and cry very loud.... haha.... so funny......

My mum so funny.... she put her hand inside the turtle mouth to make Jovian laugh.... haha....

My mum leg joint pain so she cnt walk much so we decided to sit the tram to round about and also to wait for Jovian to wake up.....

The white tiger very 'hao liao' keep walking around to show off..... hehe....

After walking for awhile, i think the tiger also feel so warm cos that day really very hot.... the tiger went dwn to the water and cool dwn.... this is the 1st time i saw tiger go dwn the water.... i tot tiger scare of water???

At 1st, my mum tot this is real ah ma, she try to talk to her..... haha...... she so funny....

After Zoo, we drive my mum to eat dinner, as her birthday is on 30/04/09 & also celebrate Mother's Day together..... after dinner, we drive her home and Jovian wants to see mei mei so we went up for awhile to let Jovian play with mei mei.....

Taken on 26/04/09 (Sun) at home.... nothing to do, so take photo with Jovian.... can see my nose got something??? haiz.... need to see doctor liao... cos a few years back there is a pimple on my nose, den my hand itch and scratch it and now got 1 small 'meat' there so ugly.... look like nose shit..... haha....

My mum brought Jovian new Dress... almost all the clothes is brought by my mum.... my Hubby family did not buy any things for Jovian, got la.... can count 1 la... lest den 5 items....

So beautiful.....

We went to Plaza Sing to have out lunch....

Jovian Love her phant phant SO MUCH!!!

2009-04-28T16:08:00.002+08:00

Before that , i thinking of taking Jovian toy elephant to wash, but i keep forgot to bring back another elephant from my MIL house, yesterday, i remember, i bring the elephant back, when Jovian sleep at night, i taking her old elephant to wash.... cos she need to hug her old elephant den can sleep.... if give her the new 1, she wnt sleep.....

At 4.00am i woke Jovian up to drink her milk, she wake up and keep crying, she said she wants her phant phant, i tell her ur phant phant beside u la, she said dun want this, she 1 the old phant phant which i bring to wash..... den she cry again.... cnt imaging so dark in the room, she still know this is not her old phant phant.... hehe.... got the same smell ma, but she still wants her old 1...... after drinking her milk, she still keep asking for her phant phant, bo pian.... i check the elephant, lucky dry liao, i bring it to her, she so happy.... like seeing her old friend......

After washing the elephant i will ask her she wants which elephant, although the old 1 dun have her smell on it liao but she still choose the old 1 instant the new 1...... Only go to her grandma hse den she carry the new elephant to sleep, as i told her the old elephant must put inside the car so that at night, we went to fetch her, the phant phant will be in the car waiting for her to hug..... haha.....

Now she likes to talk to her phant phant and play with it..... hehe.... Jovian go anywhere she need to bring her phant phant along and somemore her tu tu...... haiz.....

Touching Film

2009-04-21T08:15:00.003+08:00

I just received an email from my friend, it is a touching film..... after watching i feel like crying, cnt believe the poor country children need to eat those leftover food which their father collect from KFC, when they saw Chicken, they were so happy....

Like our kids, is too lucky to stay in the home which can provide them 'Best' food but they still dun wants to eat and wasted the food.... haiz....

It’s heart wrenching to watch this short movie..so we should really
count our blessings.

http://www.cultureunplugged.com/play/1081/Chicken-a-la-Carte

1st time Outing with Jovian alone

2009-04-17T14:28:00.003+08:00

Yesterday, i take Childcare leave, to bring Jovian to see doctor as she is having flu starting from Monday, and her cough also come on Wed, so i decided t take leave to bring Jovian to see doctor.

We went out ard 8.30am and wait for out turn at the clinic until 9.30am..... After seeing the doctor, i decided to bring Jovian to collect our passport at ICA, this is the 1st time i bring Jovian out by my own, i really scare half way on the trip, she dun wants to sit stroller, hw can i carry her and push the stroller at the same time....

Before gtg out, i told Jovian if she is good girl, i will bring her out but she must sit on her stroller, no 'bao bao' on the way.... She knows what i talking, she said 'OK'. When i opened the door, prepared to go out, i thought she dunno what i said, so i dun bring stroller out but she remind me to take stroller and said she wants to sit.... i was so happy, this is 1st time she request herself that she wants to sit on the stroller.....

All the way to the clinic, she sit on her stroller, i only put her dwn after reaching the clinic.... She very good girl, she dun dare to ask me to carry her as she knows i will straight away go home.....

But after seeing the doctor, we prepared to walk to MRT station, she forgot and asked me to carry her. I told her if u wants me to carry u, we will go home now and no 'kai kai' for her.... after hearing what i said, she let me put her in the stroller..... haha.....

Inside MRT, She still sitting in her stroller, if for last time, she will definitely ask me to carry her..... When we reach ICA waiting for our no. to be called, i put her dwn as she sit in the stroller very long liao..... she run here and there, and climb here and there.... my GOD.... but i think to myself, she very good girl for today liao, so i let her do whatever she wants....

On the way home in the MRT, she fall asleep in her stroller, really very lucky that i bring stroller and lucky she wants to sit, or else my whole body will be in pain.....

I told my hubby that i let Jovian sit on the stroller for our whole trip, he can't believe as everytimes when we go out, we bring the stroller, she just sit for awhile den ask us to carry her for the rest of the trip, so Hubby dun like to bring stroller out as it is extra...... den my MIL also said that bring Jovian everytimes need to carry her as she lazy to walk.....

From yesterday experience, i think need to teach her lor, must tell her before hand that if wants to go 'kai kai' means no 'bao bao' or else no 'kai kai'..... hehe.... i think Jovian also scare of me la, cos she knows my pattern, so she dun dare to ask me to carry her..... if her daddy there, she surely ask daddy to carry her.... cos hubby surely give in to her...... haiz.....

Outing on Mar'09 & Apr'09

2009-04-09T16:57:00.014+08:00

Taken on 22/03/09, we bring hubby father out for a walk, he said he din go Central before so we bring him there to walk.... We bring Jovian to Clark Quek to play water....

Taken on 28/03/09, we went to Zoo again, this time is with hubby friend & family.... They had free ticket so we go again.... althought we go 2 times and this is our 3rd times there..... It really fun to bring children there....

Jovian watching the animal show.....

After that we bring the children to the kidzworld to play water..... they had so much fun there.... We also went dwn to play with them, we also become wet.....

Jovian feeling sleepy now..... after playing water....

Our group photo taken outside the Zoo...

Our family photo....

This is the children group photo...

Jovian is very friendly to all the children, she likes to hug them.... but most of the times, the children will push her away..... hehe.....

Taken on 05/04/09, we meeting Jiali family at Bugis.... Jiali son was so cute, he like to smile......

Haiz.... Jovian seaching my bag for her tu tu..... she is so addicted to the tu tu....

This is new Ultraman..... haha.....

This is the 1st time, Kayden on the ride.... he having alot of fun.... he is just 13months so his mummy need to hold on him..... when he much older, i think he will become addicted to the ride like Jovian...

Jovian everytimes wants to call Kayden, but she still dunno how to differential which is boy & girl so she keeps calling Kayden mei mei.... hehe.... After we teach her, she called him di di but after awhile, she forgot again and called him mei mei again.... 'Faint'

Jiali making fun of Jovian, she put on a sunglass for Jovian.... so cute right....

After that we went to the new shopping mall opposite Bugis Junction... Not many shop open yet, we only went there for awhile.....

Married Life

2009-04-06T17:03:00.002+08:00

I feel that married life is so boring and tired..... After so many yrs of married life, relationship become 有感情没爱情.... haiz.... nothing to talk to each other or else started to talk is quarrel with each other.... feel so tired leh....

Haiz.... i also dunno what to say regarding our relationship, i feel that now we become more like friend then couple... After reach home from work, he will play with Jovian 1st and i will do my housework.... after Jovian sleep, we will do our own thing.... He surf his internet and i watch my TV programme..... I don't like this kind of life.... so boring....

Jovian is 21 months & 19 days

2009-03-19T13:48:00.003+08:00

So long din update on Jovian.... nw Jovian is 21 months & 19days, she knows how to speak many words now....

She can pronoun mummy & daddy well, cos last time she call us mimi & didi....
She likes to play with many children, hug & sayang them....
She likes to make me angry and when i intend to beat her, she will try to sayang me so i wnt beat her....
Sometimes she is a gd girl and sometimes is a naughty girls....
She likes to climb up the chair to sit by herself.....
She dun likes to walk, she likes to ask us to carry her ard....
She likes to play with water....
She likes her elephant very much, no elephant she cnt sleep....
She likes to play with my Elder Brother Daughter and everytimes ask us to go pao pao Hse to see Pao Pao & mei mei....
She likes to go playground to play ....
She everytimes ask for her tu tu (Pacifier)....
She cannot stay at home.... must bring her out to play on weekends cos mummy will become mad at home with her.... hehe....
She likes to climb up to our bed to sleep with us....
She still very blurr on which is boys & which is girls... so she everytimes call boys as jie jie..... hehe....
She is very lazy, she will pour out all her toys, after playing i ask her to keep, she will ask her daddy to keep for her....
She scare of thunder & loud noise, she hear loud noise, she will scare and cry and run very fast toward us..
She knows how to wear her shoe & take off her sock...
She likes to eat plain rice with soup....
She likes to eat banana & hotdog bread....
She knows how to say pu pu and i will bring potty for her to pu pu.....

That's all first.... still thinking what to add on.... haiz.... need to work liao.... so sian.....

Botanic Gardens on 08/03/09 (Sun)

2009-03-10T22:02:00.008+08:00

We went to Botanic Gardens on Sunday Morning, 10am. This is the first time we went there, we had our breakfast there, then went for a walk......

Shaker Room for the Orchid...

Can See from the Photo, so...... HOT...... must go there early in the morning about 7am..... not so hot.....

This is the Swan Lake...... This is also the 1st time we saw Swan...... hehe.....

Only 2 Swan there.....

Jovian saw other children feeding the Swans, she also wants to feed, but i din buy any bread or vegetable here.... Luckily a parent give her a bread to feed the Swans, she so happy..... nx time must bring liao.....

Inside the lake also got tortoise and big Fish fighting for food with the Swans.......

Smelling Water from upstair

2009-03-09T10:55:00.002+08:00

Past 1 week, got water dripping from upper level, at first is only night time cos day time working so i dunno.... ok nvm, cos i did not bring my clothes out but 1 day, i on MC and stay at home, i still saw water dripping dwn den got urinal smell..... at first i thought is from my hse, i smell every where on my kitchen but not from my house, is from outside, i think is the water!!!! I tried to use my camera to zoom on the upper level unit, i zoom until #12 floor, got water on the wall and keep dripping to lower unit..... so i suspect is #12 floor, dunno they pour water or wash their clothes without drying the clothes, they did not think of lower floor, we dun need to hang our clothes out lor and also cnt open our window!!!!

Yesterday i at home, whole day the water keep coming dwn, i use my camera again, this time i try to use video to record dwn more easy to complain to the Town Council. I suspect is the wall seepage from the toilet area, or else why got the urinal smell...... Hope Town Council will settle this problem for the lower unit!!!!

Unexpeced Access

2009-03-09T10:37:00.003+08:00

Yesterday, i watched the Channel 5, 10pm show, Unexpected Access. It talk about children surgery, got 2 cases, it about a boy of age 4yrs was seriously burn on his whole body.... when i saw this, my hair all stand up, I think the face was burn at 70%, the nurse clean his wound and change his bandage, the boy scream in pain, i think every mum saw this will feel pain for a little boy, the host, Wong Liling, cried out, i also cried.....

Another case is about a baby which is only 4months boy was born abnormal on his eyes, both his eyes was poke out, so the doctor performed a surgery on the baby skull, the whole process was shown out, my god!!!! so scary man..... the doctor open the head and screw the skull..... i saw it, gtg to faint..... so bloody.... really "Pei Fu" the host, Wong Liling can stand so near to see the operation..... I really feel so heart pain for the baby and parents.....

This is a really gd programme to watch although some time it is scary on some screen.....

Zoo / Bottle Tree Village / Brother Hse

2009-03-02T22:10:00.013+08:00

Taken on 22/02/09 (Sun), we went to Zoo again with Hubby family member. This time to Zoo is free admission cos Hubby brother company got 1 member card to Zoo for free. This time round, we reach Zoo very early at about 9am, cos last time we din see all the show. Go early got one gd thing, all animal had waked up.... hehe....

White Tiger walk here and there to show off!!!

Hippo also swim here and there.....

Elephant Show, finally can see on time. This show was called Elephant at work...

Elephant said bye bye...

Elephant tried to take the hat off the man....

This is Kidzworld, for children to play water and playground inside too...

Jovian water time, she likes to play water but still abit scare, need her daddy to accompany her....

After water time, is Jovian nap time, she sleep for 1hrs, and also raining at that time, so lucky we were in the shelter.... We wait for awhile, to rush for another show, the rain was little raindrop, we walk very fast for the next show, we see the show for awhile, it started to rain heavily again..... the show was cancelled.... haiz.... still miss the show..... we stand at the side to wait for the rain to stop again before gtg home although we still haven finished our jounery.....

We run to the restaurant to wait for the rain cos it become more & more heavy rain, Jovian waked up, lucky during the running, Jovian was all the way sleeping.....

Taken on 25/02/09 (Wed), after work, I went home, on the bus, i saw rainbow so beautiful.... Before that i was very angry about something but when i saw this rainbow, i feel so happy after that...... After i alight the bus, i walked to my house, i at void deck, i quickly bring out my hp to take photo but was not cleared, so i rush upstair to bring my camera to take again, so .... so ..... beautiful.......

Taken on 28/02/09 (Sat), we went to Marina Square as my mum wants to buy clothing for all her grandchildren.... when we reach there, we bring her to Kiddy Palace, we told her, that place is very big got many clothing to choose, but we reach there, Kiddy Palace become half!!!! very small place... nothing to buy.... the clothing only a few there.... after choosing, my mum said nothing to buy, so we go outside the shop, Jovian saw the moving toy, she wants to sit, i asked my mum to accompany her....

Taken on 01/03/09 (Sun), we went to Sembawang God of Fortune to pray for "Hu Ye" cos too many "Xiao Ren" liao, need to pray and throw the "Xiao Ren" in the Boat and sent them away.....

After that, we went to Bottle Tree Village to take alook as we nvm go before.... Inside got 1 Seafood Restaurant and a fishing pond to catch prawn, i kalong pond for children to catch small fish.... but i find that some fish died liao.... no children played la..... and 1 playground there..... quit a beautiful place to had dinner there, as the seat face the beach....

This photo show the Bottle Tree.

After Bottle Tree Village, we went to my Brother hse to visit my mum & see Yun Fei, cos Jovian miss her and wants to play with her....

We ask Jovian and Yun Fei to laid dwn on the bed to take photo....

We ask Jovian to hug mei mei cos she keep falling dwn but Jovian hug until so hard.... hehe....

Sembawang Beach & Dempsey Indoor Playground

2009-02-21T16:21:00.018+08:00

Late unload picture..... We went to my Ex Sis-In-law hse on 08/02/09(Sun), last 2nd day of CNY. I think 1 to 2 yrs din see Mindy & my sis-in-law liao.... feel so happy that we can go their hse to visit them..... but recently received a call from my Ex Sis-in-law asked me dun put their photo on my blog, I really dunno they scare what!!!!

This is Mindy Ong, she become more & more quiet.... after so many yrs, she is taller than me nw.... i feel that i getting old nw......

After that, i asked Mindy to go my hse to play with jovian, but i let Jovian had asleep 1st before gtg to Sembawang Beach....

We waited at my hse for sis-in-law as she said she very tired need to sleep for while at home... We tot gtg to East Coast to eat buffer so we did not had our lunch, but we wait for her until 5plus den she come, she told us the buffer is only for lunch...... SHIT!!!! she din said earlier....

Before dinner, we went to Sembawang Beach, this is the 1st time, Jovian went to play sand and also 1st time we went there, she dunno hw to play..... she just walk here & there and see Mindy play....

Jovian had so much fun times there....

After that, i asked hubby to play with Jovian.....

This man is catching crab in the sea......

Finally Jovian knows hw to scoop sand inside the basket....

We went to Go Go Bambini on 15/02/09, we meet hubby friends there....

We waited at cafe for them.....

Finally, hubby friend came..... this place is a indoor playground at Dempsey Rd, this is our 1st time there.... so much fun....

I bring Jovian to the ball area to play, she dun dare to play, she just stand there & take 2 ball in her hands and see other pple play.....

I asked hubby to bring Jovian to tje 2nd floor to play.... this place is 3rd storey high....

After that, we went to Ang Mo Kio to had our dinner at Pizza Hut.... We let Jovian play this control car which mean control by us..... so much fun for Jovian & us.....