New Environment & Update

So long din blog liao..... so lazy to write anything as too busy and tired....



Update about myself 1st, i just started work in my new company for 2 weeks, i try to settle myself in this new environment as i din work in big company before..... many things to learn here as compared to current company, nothing to learn! But also abit stress here, need to cope well with many colleague, last time only me and "Lao Cha Bo" but lucky i had a buddy to help & teach me all the things which i need to do...



Every Sat, I also need to go back to current company to help my Skinny boss to settle the account work. Every Sat is also very rush for me as i only work for him for half day, i need to settle all the document for the week, after that need to rush back to fetch Jovian. At 1st i got tell my MIL, i will need to work on every sat and need her to look aft Jovian for half day, but nw she start to complain again, said that she had no time to settle her own things on wkend! I ask my hubby to look aft Jovian himself but he scare cos later Jovian "pu pu", he dunno how to clean her, he din do anything before, as all was done by me! No choice, think need to bring Jovian to work liao..... hiaz....

As for Jovian, she knows how to sing some songs but she can mix all the songs together.... haha... She is quit a clever girl now, if she at home, she will ask her Ah Ma or me dun let her wear dryper, as she knows how to go to her potty herself. She knows how to speak in full sentences liao, she is a "xiao da ren" now! She still quit a naughty girl, everytime beat her Ah Ma when she is angry so i need to beat her up after i heard complain from her Ah Ma!

Update on Jovian 27 months

So long din update on Jovian growing up....

Jovian now knows how to speak in full sentences, she likes to ask "What is this? What is that?" She can repeat herself many times for asking this two question..... *FAINT*

She is really very naughty now, whenever she do something wrong, i beat her real hard, she wnt cry! but she will say she wnt do it again.... after awhile, she forgot what she promise me, and repeat her mistake again..... Everytimes make me until very angry and beat her.... She cnt stay at home with me, i will become sian....

Now whenever i ask her to do something she dun like, she wnt do it except i telling her i gtg to take my cane liao, den she will do it.... haiz.... need to buy a new cane liao.... haha....

Jovian dun like to wear dryper now, she knows how to go to her potty which we put it outside the toilet when she wants 'pu pu' or urine.... she is much clever now. I told her if 'pu pu' must tell me and i bring her to potty, but one day i doing my housework at kitchen, i din hear her voice, so i go check out, she sitting on the potty, i ask her what u doing, she said she 'pu pu', i say clever girl knows how to go the potty 1st.... i tell her after 'pu pu' finish call me, after 'pu pu' she really call me to come and wash her..... i really very happy that Jovian had grown up and knows how to do her business on her own.....

Jovian Knows hw to Sing Song

Jovian knows hw to sing song liao, so clever girl! But she only knows hw to sing chinese song which i sing to her every night to make her sleep... she just knows the front part like, "tinkle tinkle little star" in chinese & more song.... yesterday just teach her "2 tigers" in chinese, she knows hw to sing the 1st two lines.... hehe....

She can speak very well now, only that she very blurr between me & u or mine & yours??? She will say opposite to us, like she wants us to carry her, she will say "mummy carry you" so we still teaching her between me & u.

Her chinese is very gd as her grandma everytimes speak to her in chinese & hokkien....but whenever she speak in hokkien, i will scold her cos i scare she go to childcare will reply the teachers in hokkien, no face leh!

Happy Birthday to Jovian

Today is Jovian 2nd yrs old Birthday, hope Jovian be healthy and be a gd girl!

Update on Jovian 2 yrs old:
1) She knows how to say in statement.... like: Daddy go away, Mummy go working, Aunty/ uncle come play, i dun 1, go mei mei hse, go pao pao hse, .....

2) She likes to beat pple, especially her ah ma, she can pull her ah ma hair, and slap her face!

3) She likes to go my mum hse to play with mei mei, she will ask us to bring her to mei mei hse.

4) She is more & more stubborn.

5) She scare me when i said i gtg to beat her if she naughty again, but she wnt scare her daddy, keep beating her daddy very hard..... haha....

6) Sometimes she will tell us she 1 2 pu pu on the potty, and sometimes she will bluff us, when i putting her to sleep and she dun 1 2 sleep, she will said she 1 pu pu, but she sit on her potty for very long, nothing come out.

7) She can sleep on her bed at night without putting her on the yao lan. Now i train her to sleep on her bed at night as she gtg to childcare soon, cnt sleep in the yao lan liao.... but i need to accompany her to sleep. she will turn here & there and talk to her 'best friend' 'phant phant'... i ask her to sleep, she still talking, in the end i fall asleep myself.... "faint", when i wake up in 30mins time, she fall asleep liao....

8) She likes her 'phant phant' so much, she like to hug , kiss and talk to her 'phant phant'.

9) At night, before gtg to sleep, she will ask her daddy to on air con for her, as the weather is really very warm.

10) She likes to go 'kai kai', shopping so much, every weekend must bring her out or else, i will BECOME siao at home!

I think that all about Jovian, will update again, when i remember.....

Last but not least, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY BEAUTIFUL AND CUTE JOVIAN!

Jovian Love her phant phant SO MUCH!!!

Before that , i thinking of taking Jovian toy elephant to wash, but i keep forgot to bring back another elephant from my MIL house, yesterday, i remember, i bring the elephant back, when Jovian sleep at night, i taking her old elephant to wash.... cos she need to hug her old elephant den can sleep.... if give her the new 1, she wnt sleep.....

At 4.00am i woke Jovian up to drink her milk, she wake up and keep crying, she said she wants her phant phant, i tell her ur phant phant beside u la, she said dun want this, she 1 the old phant phant which i bring to wash..... den she cry again.... cnt imaging so dark in the room, she still know this is not her old phant phant.... hehe.... got the same smell ma, but she still wants her old 1...... after drinking her milk, she still keep asking for her phant phant, bo pian.... i check the elephant, lucky dry liao, i bring it to her, she so happy.... like seeing her old friend......

After washing the elephant i will ask her she wants which elephant, although the old 1 dun have her smell on it liao but she still choose the old 1 instant the new 1...... Only go to her grandma hse den she carry the new elephant to sleep, as i told her the old elephant must put inside the car so that at night, we went to fetch her, the phant phant will be in the car waiting for her to hug..... haha.....

Now she likes to talk to her phant phant and play with it..... hehe.... Jovian go anywhere she need to bring her phant phant along and somemore her tu tu...... haiz.....

Jovian is 21 months & 19 days

So long din update on Jovian.... nw Jovian is 21 months & 19days, she knows how to speak many words now....

1. She can pronoun mummy & daddy well, cos last time she call us mimi & didi....
2. She likes to play with many children, hug & sayang them....
3. She likes to make me angry and when i intend to beat her, she will try to sayang me so i wnt beat her....
4. Sometimes she is a gd girl and sometimes is a naughty girls....
5. She likes to climb up the chair to sit by herself.....
6. She dun likes to walk, she likes to ask us to carry her ard....
7. She likes to play with water....
8. She likes her elephant very much, no elephant she cnt sleep....
9. She likes to play with my Elder Brother Daughter and everytimes ask us to go pao pao Hse to see Pao Pao & mei mei....
10. She likes to go playground to play ....
11. She everytimes ask for her tu tu (Pacifier)....
12. She cannot stay at home.... must bring her out to play on weekends cos mummy will become mad at home with her.... hehe....
13. She likes to climb up to our bed to sleep with us....
14. She still very blurr on which is boys & which is girls... so she everytimes call boys as jie jie..... hehe....
15. She is very lazy, she will pour out all her toys, after playing i ask her to keep, she will ask her daddy to keep for her....
16. She scare of thunder & loud noise, she hear loud noise, she will scare and cry and run very fast toward us..
17. She knows how to wear her shoe & take off her sock...
18. She likes to eat plain rice with soup....
19. She likes to eat banana & hotdog bread....
20. She knows how to say pu pu and i will bring potty for her to pu pu.....

That's all first.... still thinking what to add on.... haiz.... need to work liao.... so sian.....

Great Fall & Update for Jovain 17th month

Jovian having a great fall on Tue (28/10/08), which is her 17th month old......

She fall down @ her grandma house. Jovian likes to play with water and don't drink water, so her grandfather let her play until the living room floor wet, he also dunno, when Jovian walk past that area, she had a great fall and hit her head with a loud bang!!!! wa lau!!!! so pain leh...... my heart also pain for her....... she cry so loud..... hope nothing wrong with her head......

ok la..... now i will updated on Jovian 17th month.....
Jovian knows many words now, she knows how to say milk milk, mun mun, sit, eat, wash, play, wet wet, tu tu, mei mei, mi mi (means mummy), di di (means daddy),po po (means my mum), ah ma, gong (means FIL).....

Jovian also knows some words like a, b, c......., now still teaching her more.......

Jovian likes to beat her ah ma, she also likes to hug children when she go shopping.....

Jovian was very naughty now, she always beaten by me, she scare my cane when i bring it in front of her..... after beating her, awhile later she will do the same things again and beaten by me again..... haiz......

Video Of Jovian

Jovian Likes to take all the things on our TV rack and throw it on the floor.... After that, we ask her to put back the things, she will go away and let her daddy keep......

Jovian Likes to make funny pattern to make people laugh.....

Jovian likes to show off by walking here and there when got relatives around.... if nobody around, she will ask her ah ma to carry her everywhere......

Jovian can walk quit a distance now....

Photo Of Jovian

Nw Jovian Likes to sit on her yao lan and ask her ah ma to swing her up down..... hehe.....

Jovian likes to take out things to play, she seldom wants to play her toys.....

Jovian knows how to say few words..... Like.....' sit, eat, pig, take, book, bird, duck, ball and yes ', Now still trying to teach her more words.....

Jovian Knows hw to walk few step

This video was taken yesterday, hubby tried to teach Jovian to walk herself without holding her hands, she so scared but she finally manage to walk a few step and faster lean against her daddy... Jovian knows hw to walk but still need us to hold her hands, she very scared and some more lazy to walk...... haiz......

Jovian 14months old

I think i din blog for a week...... Haiz busy with my online sale for watches.....

Here so updated on Jovian 14 months:
1) Jovian knows hw to knob her head to tell us 'Yes' and shake her head to tell us 'No' when we ask her things .
2) Jovian 3rd tooth at below come out abit.
3) Jovian likes to sayang her baby cousin and she likes baby alot.
4) Jovian knows hw to stand by herself without holding her hands but she dare not walk herself.
5) Jovian become more naughty like a boy...... hehe....

I think that all for Jovian, will update more when she knows how to walk........

Jovian Cleaning Time

Just taken this video of Jovian Cleaning the table, floor and window.... She is really a sweet heart, knows how to do household job for mummy and daddy.... wahaha..... cos she knows mummy is very lazy to clean.... wahaha......

12 months photo

I thinking of doing this for Jovian as she is 1 years old now but no time to sort out her photo....
This is Jovian series of growing up photo starting from born to 12 months.

This is her birth record. / Jovian just born.

Jovian 1 month / Jovian 2 month (cutting her hair until botak head, lol...)

Jovian 3 month (having her injection, having fever) / Jovian 4 month

Jovian 5 month (learning to turn around) / Jovian 6 month

Jovian 7 month (like to shopping) / Jovian 8 month

Jovian 9 month (learning to sit on her own) / Jovian 10 month

Jovian 11 month / Jovian 12 month (a very naughty girl)

1st time using potter at home

Yesterday we went to Marina Sq for dinner. After dinner, we went to kiddy palace, i saw this swing, i ask hubby to put Jovian there. Jovian likes this swing very much.

Just now, i feed Jovian biscuits and water. After a while, Jovian made a pupu sound. i ask her whether she wants to pupu. She keep making pupu sound..... so i bring out the potter and put some water inside. I take off her diaper and let her sit on the potter, and make the pupu sound, she follow me..... Can see from the picture 2, she pushing her shit out, her look so funny, wahaha......

This is the 1st time she using potter at home. Before that, her grandma got train her to use.

Jovian crawling

Jovian likes to crawl to the coffee table and walk here and there.

Jovian 1 year old

Jovian is 1 years old on 28/5/08, times really passed by so fast. Nw Jovian was a big girl.
I going to update on Jovian growing process:

1. Jovian had 4 tooth, another 2 tooth going to come out, now still swollen.
2. Jovian liked to pinch & beat people, she is a naughty girl.
   
3. Jovian liked to hold the side of the table and learned how to walk.
4. When we asked Jovian to sit down to play with her toys, she know what we talking to her, she will sit down on the floor to play.
5. When we asked Jovian to hug hug her toy elephant, she will go and find her elephant and hug.
   
6. When we asked Jovian to wave goodbye, she will wave.
7. Now she understand what we told her.

Jovian still learning how to walk, but her leg still very weak and some more she is lazy.

11 months

Today Jovian is already 11 months. How time flies, just give birth to her on 28/05/07, now going to 1 year old. I also become older.... haiz....

Here is the update on Jovian at 11 months:
1) Jovian know how to wave goodbye
2) Jovian trying to pronoun words like, baba, ah ba, ma....
3) Jovian can crawl very fast now but she use 1 leg and her backside to help her crawl, so different from other children....
4) Jovian favourite things is her soft toys, bunny, piglet and dumbo. She don't really like to play with her toys only soft toys, she like to hug them very tight and won't let us touch or keep her soft toys. She can hug them and fall asleep on her cot and car seat.
5) Jovian can stand up holding her baby cot herself.
6) Jovian knows how to sit up by herself when she on her bed. So when we put her on her bed she keep sitting up and play with her soft toys, don't want to sleep, need hubby to play with her for a while and pat her sleep.
7) Jovian scare of stranger, she don't like our friends to carry her, can only play with her but cannot touch her.
8) Jovian know how to hold her milk bottle to drink herself but after awhile lazy and need mummy to hold for her.
9) Jovian understand what mummy say to her now.
10) Jovian know how to say no by moving her head side to side.

I think that all for the update....

Jovian Daily Routine

Every night, needs to do the same things,

1) After dinner at toh guan, reach home around 7.30pm, put Jovian on the floor, daddy play with her until 8.30pm. mummy doing housework.....



2) At around 8.15pm, mummy prepared cereal milk for Jovian. The preparation is shown below:






3) After finish her cereal milk, clean up for Jovian, change diaper, put baby powder and prepared to sleep.

4) Before going to sleep, Jovian needs to say goodnight to daddy, mummy.

5) Mummy will carry Jovian to her Baby Cot.

6) Jovian roll here and there, after that fall asleep around 9.00pm.

7) After Jovian sleep, is hubby and my relax times. We will watch tv progammes or log in to internet to blog.

Standing Up

Jovian sleeping now so can blog...

Just now at my mil house, she say Jovian knows how to stand and she show to me.
She put her lay near to the wall, Jovian really can stand straight toward the wall. This is the 1st time I saw Jovian stand up. So happy to see her sit up, crawl and stand up. Still waiting for her 1st step.... Every month, will see different changes and different growing stages on her. To see our baby grows up healthy and becoming more pretty (hehe....) is a wonderful thing.

Here is some pictures showing hw she stand.

Story abt my baby Jovian Sha'nn

This is the 1st time i blog here so i will began a story abt my little baby Jovian....

Mummy : Esther Ong

Daddy : Jason Pek

Baby : Jovian Sha'nn Pek
I give birth to Jovian Sha’nn Pek Min Qi on 28^th May 2007. That day around 3.00am, I wake up to go to toilet, I did not on the light but I saw my panties got water on it so I on the light, got blood on it! I faster went to bedroom to wake up my hubby n say my panties got blood faster ask him to contact my doctor to see need to go to hospital, my hubby thought I bluff him & fall back to sleep again so I ask him, why he fall asleep, he say he going to work later, so I shouted at him & say that I going to give birth liao, den he quickly jump up from bed. After that I went to take a bath & prepared to go to hospital. My hubby tried to contact my doctor (Adrain Tan) & he say better go to hospital to check 1^st.

We reach Thomson Medical Centre at around 5+am. We go to the counter to register & my hubby stay at the counter & I was bought in to the ward to change into delivery skirt. After that the nurse put smthing on my anus to force all the shit out n check whether my cervix is open to how many cm…. It is 2cm & she say can give birth today….. and than send me to delivery suite to wait for delivery. Inside the suit, they have TV, radio & 1 comfortable sofa for hubby to sit. I stay on the bed, my stomach got equipment to test for the baby heart, I cnt move too much, I can only stay there to watch TV & talk to hubby. I so tired at that moment cos I wake up so early but I cnt fall asleep cos the midwife keep coming in to monitor my temperature, blood pressure & keep tabs on baby’s heart rate…..

Around 9+am, my doctor (Adrian Tan) come into my suite n check on me. Until now I still not in pain & my water bag still not burst so my doctor burst my water bag n than he go back to his clinic n say that he will come in the aftnoon to check on me…. After that my stomach started to feel pain. The pain is like everytime my period come, the pain that I can tolerate…. The contraction coming in more n more often & the midwife keep asking me whether I need epidural, I feel that I can tolerate the pain so I only ask the midwife for the pain-relieving gas. At first, I don’t know how to use the gas, I cnt breathe…. Than the midwife says need to inhale more until I feel the gas & than out hale again…. The midwife every hour would come in to check on my cervix & say that I will give birth at afternoon time….

My pain started to feel very pain around 12+, the feeling is like passing motion, I tell my hubby that I going to give birth & ask him to call the midwife in to check the cervix, but the midwife say that my cervix still haven reach 10cm, ask me don’t force the baby out 1^st & that day many people giving birth n the midwife is very busy n keep asking me don’t push 1^st, ask me to breathe the gas n ask my hubby to count 123 for me to breathe. I cnt control anymore n keep pushing the baby out so the midwife stay in my room n ask me to take my leg n push! I tried to push but I have not strength so the midwife say dun pushes 1^st, breath the gas n wait for her. Than she go to other room again…. Den I cnt control myself again n keep pushing n my hubby keep telling me dun push but I cnt tolerate…. (I can see that my hubby is very anxious n scared when he sees me in pain…) So my hubby ask the midwife to cm over, the midwife help me to push again but the baby head still cnt cm out, the midwife say I dunno hw to push…. I very angry n push very hard again…. The baby head coming out little bit, the midwife quickly ask my doctor to come to take over…. When Adrian come, he ask me to push harder n the baby head n shoulder come out n ask me to push more harder so I did…. My baby was born at 3+pm. After giving birth, doctor straight away pass the baby to me to take a look n my hubby was ask by the doctor to cut the cord blood stem…. After that the doctor give me an injection on my thigh to stop the blood n stitches my vaginal….

We stayed in the delivery suite until 5+pm cos they need to measure the baby weight, head n length…… After that, they bring the baby to bath….. n my hubby n me waited at the suite cos the entire midwife n nurse is very busy…..

I was push to my ward (ward no.: 252A), it is a 2 person ward…. I was so hungry n weak at that moment cos the whole day I haven eat…. So I ask the nurse for milo n cake… My hubby tired to call my mum n his parent to tell them this good news. Aft that my hubby go to drive them to hospital to see me n baby…. My mum, his parent n brother came (I thought his mum wnt cm! Dun comes better!) My elder brother came around 10+pm so my mum n the rest wait for them to come… They were in order to carry my baby…. I was laying on the bed cos I still in the pain n the nurse tell me stay in bed today n tomorrow den can move… I ask my hubby to stay here to accompany me but the nurse dun allow him so he drive them home n come tomorrow morning….

At night the nurse tell me that today need to pass urine (scared that if no urine for so long will affect my inner) or else she will put smthing on my vaginal for me to pass out…. So I ask her to bring me to the toilet to see whether got urine but its too pain n I pass out little bit so the nurse use the shower to splash to my vaginal still no use.…. After that I keep drinking red date water which my mum brought, I have the urge so I ask the nurse again, this time finally urinal….

On the 2^nd day (29^th May 2007), the hospital had arranged for training on hw to bath n breast feed the baby so my hubby n I go for the lesson. It is an interesting lesson n I know hw to calm my baby….

For the one-month confinement (28/5/07 – 28/06/07), at first I decided to call catering for confinement meal but my mum says not nourishment enough so she comes to cook for me. I really appreciated her for doing so many thing for me, so I only let her to cook n sweep the floor for me n I look aft my baby at days n night n do the housework myself. During this one-month many people come to visit me except my hubby parent. They din even call to ask hw baby n me!

We celebrated my baby full month on 24^th June 2007. At 1^st, we decided to invite friend for buffer but thinking of our financial problem, I decided not to. (Haiz no choice, I really wants to give my baby the best thing but his father cnt afford it…..). We only give cake to our friends and prepared things to pray to god. Hubby father, brother and wife came to our hse, only his stupid mum din comes. So I ask his father why she din come, he say that I din invite her so she don’t want to come. My mum ask me to call her to invite her (I don’t want to invite her!), so I call her, she still put on a strong attitude, I put dwn the phone.

At first my hubby know hw to help up a little bit like feeding the baby at night but nw he dunno hw to feed her n only concentrate with his course work.

Starting of every weeks (mean wkdays) needs to go to that stupid women (mu hubby mum) hse to let her look aft my baby! I really dun like to see her stupid face but no choice….. If I got money, I rather bring my baby to childcare center den to see her!

When my baby was around 3 months old, I call her to ask her to look aft my baby, she keep saying she dun 1 2 look aft baby….. I say nobody look aft 4 me, & I will give her money every month. In the end, she says ok.

So on 29/08/07, I bring my baby there. For the 1^st month, everything ok, on the day we gtg to give her money, she din say much but the nx day, she ask we give her this money is for looking aft baby or eating dinner here. I tell her looking aft baby, she can dun cook 4 us. She keep scolding us, I so angry but cnt scold her! She say the amount giving to her is enough for wat, I tell her we dun have enough to give her, if got money surely will give her! Before that I tell her on the phone but nw she say another thing! So nw my hubby say need to give her more.

At 1^st, she uses the diapers very fast, so I just tell her, if not so full dun change 1^st or else wasted. She also din say anything. Nx morning same pattern again, scold us early in morning, say, “If scare she waste diapers den look aft yourself la!” and say that she dun 1 2 look aft, and ask us to put her in the child care, so we quickly go n ask the childcare price. All very expensive, and we cnt effort it and my mum leg pain cnt look aft 4 me. We so worry, I tell my mum if she really dun 1 2 look aft den ask my mum 2 look aft. But in the end, she ok liao, she din say a words again…. Siao!!!!

She will try to scold us early in the morning when we reach there, so I dun like to go to her hse. If not 4 my baby I surely wnt go to her hse again. So I plan to send my baby to childcare when she reaches 18 months. Aft that I can say her n dun needs to look at her stupid face!!!!

On 29^th Feb, my mum tell me to ask her whether they got invite my mum to her brother wedding so I ask her. She say Meiling (my hubby bro wife, also my relative) parents dun like my mum so dun invite her and need to ask hubby side to invite my mum. I so angry, n say what u talking!!! She keep saying Meiling parents say they dun 1 2 invite my mum cos they dun like her!!! I so angry but I cnt scold her, later nobody look aft my baby again!!! So aft this incident, I dun feel like talking to her!!!! I told my mum all this incident, and ask my mum to call Meiling dad to ask wat he tell my mother-in-law! He dun dare to ans the call! I ask my mum if that day got anybody invite her, dun go and that day i will tell all my relatives wat my mother-in -law say!

10th Mar, she say us again, say we 1 2 buy duck & ang ku kuek to pray god but self-fish din buy anything. Is not that we dun buy, we ask her many times, at first say 1 2 buy den say dun buy so we just listen to the last words. I dun 1 2 talk too much to her, and I also dun feel like eating anything there. Aft we go off, my hubby ask me y I din eat. I say his mum say us until like this, hw I eat!!! Den I also tell him I dun like to talk to his mum nw cos she say bad thing abt my mum!!! I tell him the whole story, but he still believes not his mum false, is my relatives dun like my mum!!!! I so angry n scold him, n he also shout at me!!! Den I went off his car. I tot he wnt call me wen he reach his office but he call. So i just cool dwn to ans his call....

I really tired of his family members, my mother-in-law think that nw we need her so she can scold us wen she feel like it... I feel like scolding her, but i cnt.... my mum ask me to tolerate 1st.... :( I need to tolerate and see her every wkdays!!!!!