Jovian went to stay at MIL House on Friday (17/07/09), on that night, hubby work ot and i prepared to bring Jovian home by myself, when i was walking from Bukit Batok to Toh Guan, i make a call to inform MIL i was on the way there to fetch Jovian home and ask her to prepare for Jovian now... she told me, my FIL bring Jovian dwn to play so not so fast reach home, she den tell me or else put Jovian there to stay lor.... at first i was very happy as Jovian dun need to make me angry liao but i reach home, feel so quite and worry abt Jovian... as this is the first time Jovian staying there....
I call to talk to Jovian, i ask her whether she 1 2 stay there, she reply me ok! She so happy staying there, i so worry and sad without her the whole night....
Hubby came back around 8.30pm, and we go out to have our dinner, we make our way down to the coffeeshop and walk back just 2 of us, so long don't have this feeling liao..... but i told hubby i miss Jovian so much, den hubby ask me to go and fetch her myself lor!!!
At night prepared to sleep, i cnt fall asleep as i miss Jovian so much!!! but hubby sleep like a pig!!!! I only fall asleep around 1am den wake up 5am again, my head really very pain.....
Dunno y, when Jovian at home, she make me angry, i really hope she go away, dun let me see her but when she not at home, i miss her so much!!!
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Monday, July 20, 2009
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Small Issue, can make it big!!!!!
I think i got a few month din quarrel with that fxxking women, just nw she made noise again, i control myself or else like last time, i surely quarrel with her.
The story is like this:
Jovian buddhist pedant was lost when we go IMM on mon (08/09/08), so when we go to that fxxx women house on tue, my hubby told her to replace one for Jovian. She ask us to take mine to exchange, as i seldom wear it, so my hubby bring mine to her today, she say not this one, its another one.
My hubby keep telling her, i only had this pedant. She also keep saying she got give me another one and i lost it or give to people. (If she said i lost it, i won't be so angry, she said i give to other people, i so angry) At that time, i changing Jovian diaper, my hubby knows i gtg to quarrel with her mum so he keep telling his mum, i did not keep any extra pedant!!!! But she still keep repeating that I give to people!!!! When she come in to the room, i told her again, i dun like to wear this kind of thing, y should i keep it!!! Den i stop there, i know if i talk to her too much, my volcano surely exposed again!!!!!
# Just a small issue, she can make it so big!!!! After leaving her house, i can't control liao, so i complain to hubby, he said why i keep making noise, said that if i dun like can look after Jovian myself!!!! I so angry, i quarrel back, telling him, if he earn much, i will surely stay at home to look after Jovian and won't go to that stupid women house to look at her fxxking face!!!!
Everytime, after her mum make noise, hubby and i will surely quarrel about that issue!!! Den he keep telling me, every old people is like this!!! I see so many old people, only her temper is like this, she must win and her talking is very straight, won't care of how people feel!!! #
The story is like this:
Jovian buddhist pedant was lost when we go IMM on mon (08/09/08), so when we go to that fxxx women house on tue, my hubby told her to replace one for Jovian. She ask us to take mine to exchange, as i seldom wear it, so my hubby bring mine to her today, she say not this one, its another one.
My hubby keep telling her, i only had this pedant. She also keep saying she got give me another one and i lost it or give to people. (If she said i lost it, i won't be so angry, she said i give to other people, i so angry) At that time, i changing Jovian diaper, my hubby knows i gtg to quarrel with her mum so he keep telling his mum, i did not keep any extra pedant!!!! But she still keep repeating that I give to people!!!! When she come in to the room, i told her again, i dun like to wear this kind of thing, y should i keep it!!! Den i stop there, i know if i talk to her too much, my volcano surely exposed again!!!!!
# Just a small issue, she can make it so big!!!! After leaving her house, i can't control liao, so i complain to hubby, he said why i keep making noise, said that if i dun like can look after Jovian myself!!!! I so angry, i quarrel back, telling him, if he earn much, i will surely stay at home to look after Jovian and won't go to that stupid women house to look at her fxxking face!!!!
Everytime, after her mum make noise, hubby and i will surely quarrel about that issue!!! Den he keep telling me, every old people is like this!!! I see so many old people, only her temper is like this, she must win and her talking is very straight, won't care of how people feel!!! #
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Jovian Fall Dwn Again
Haiz...... Jovian fall dwn yesterday again...... nw her big 'bao' is at another side on her forehead....
I reach home from work saw her big 'bao', so hurt again...... still can't say anything to MIL. I know Jovian is very naughty but MIL must look after her carefully ma!!!!!
Can't talk too much to her, or else she angry again.... so i think of putting up the playpen and put it on her bedroom, when she not free or need to go to toilet den she can put Jovian inside the playpen......
I reach home from work saw her big 'bao', so hurt again...... still can't say anything to MIL. I know Jovian is very naughty but MIL must look after her carefully ma!!!!!
Can't talk too much to her, or else she angry again.... so i think of putting up the playpen and put it on her bedroom, when she not free or need to go to toilet den she can put Jovian inside the playpen......
Friday, June 13, 2008
Jovian fall dwn
My poor Jovian fall dwn on 10/06/08 (Tue).When i knock off from work and went to MIL house, WAH i saw Jovian got 1 big bao on her forehead and 1 blueblack on her face, i feel so hurt.....
My MIL dun dare to tell me, i ask her then she told me, Jovian trying to crawl and her leg cross together and fall dwn and knock her head.
I can't scold her or say her...... i know children at Jovian age tend to learn how to crawl and walk, surely will fall dwn..... but all of you see her face, she hurt so badly....... like gonna beating by someone....
On weekend when i look after Jovian, sometimes she will knock on something and got abit of blueblack on her face, MIL saw Jovian on mon, she will purposely said we don't know how to look after her, she surely won't let Jovian fall dwn. She behave like very experience and a good nanny but look at Jovian now..... haiz.....
Somemore Jovian dun like her cooking, she dun wants to eat the porridge. I had tried before, really no taste and not nice, MIL she dun dare to eat herself and expect a baby to eat.....
On weekend when my mum cook for Jovian, she will finish all, cause my mum will put alot of ingredient to make the taste better.... haiz too bad my mum can't look after Jovian for me...
Now i complaining my MIL again..... not choice.... can't said infront of her so need to write inside my blog.......
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Live Procast
Live procast of the story of me & MIL.
Yesterday, my FIL came to my house himself to see Jovian. He told us to let MIL to look after Jovian, he ask me to say sorry to her and she will look after Jovian. I say not my fault, why must I say sorry to her, she must say sorry to me! FIL keep saying MIL miss Jovian and wants us to bring Jovian for her, I told FIL she won't miss Jovian, all the thing is my FIL saying, only FIL will miss Jovian. MIL attitude is still the same, if we go back she will still say the same thing and i will quarrel with her again.
After FIL went off, my mum ask me to go and say sorry to MIL, I scolded my mum, I told her the same things, I have tolerate with her for very long, until Tuesday den I know what is a happy & wonderful life without her. During pregnant I already have abit of depression, everyday thinking of who going to look after my baby, sometimes will hide at my pillow and cry. Ok MIL finally agree to look after baby. I thought everything settle. I never thought this is the beginning of nightmare! I need to tolerate her temper, I try to become deaf, she can say anything, i dun talk back. The rest of the story i had mention on my blog.....
My mum keep asking me to think of Jovian, must say sorry to her and let her look after Jovian until 18months. My hubby also ask me tolerate some more and say sorry, he say if we put Jovian to infant care, they won't 1 to 1 focus on Jovian and Jovian now know how to crawl and keep trying to stand up, need more attention on her. I told them for Jovian I will say sorry to MIL but I know she will still talk some bad words to me!
Ok, I put down my face, go to say sorry to her just now, she still put a black face for me to see, and say bad things again. I CONTROL!!!! ( really going to slap her fucking face!!!) Den hubby keep telling his mum, father had settle and tell me to say sorry, so she carry Jovian and we went off to work. I tell hubby if not for FIL and Jovian i won't go and say sorry (I din even say sorry to my father or mother, need to say sorry to this fucker!!!!), i also tell hubby, i won't go early to see her face, I will wait for hubby after work and go together, I won't eat breakfast or dinner there, I rather eat maggie mee or treat it as diet! See her, I will vomit, no taste at all!!!
@#$#%#$%$#% i going depression again, my head very pain!!! WHY I HAD THIS KIND OF FUCKING MIL!!!!!!
Yesterday, my FIL came to my house himself to see Jovian. He told us to let MIL to look after Jovian, he ask me to say sorry to her and she will look after Jovian. I say not my fault, why must I say sorry to her, she must say sorry to me! FIL keep saying MIL miss Jovian and wants us to bring Jovian for her, I told FIL she won't miss Jovian, all the thing is my FIL saying, only FIL will miss Jovian. MIL attitude is still the same, if we go back she will still say the same thing and i will quarrel with her again.
After FIL went off, my mum ask me to go and say sorry to MIL, I scolded my mum, I told her the same things, I have tolerate with her for very long, until Tuesday den I know what is a happy & wonderful life without her. During pregnant I already have abit of depression, everyday thinking of who going to look after my baby, sometimes will hide at my pillow and cry. Ok MIL finally agree to look after baby. I thought everything settle. I never thought this is the beginning of nightmare! I need to tolerate her temper, I try to become deaf, she can say anything, i dun talk back. The rest of the story i had mention on my blog.....
My mum keep asking me to think of Jovian, must say sorry to her and let her look after Jovian until 18months. My hubby also ask me tolerate some more and say sorry, he say if we put Jovian to infant care, they won't 1 to 1 focus on Jovian and Jovian now know how to crawl and keep trying to stand up, need more attention on her. I told them for Jovian I will say sorry to MIL but I know she will still talk some bad words to me!
Ok, I put down my face, go to say sorry to her just now, she still put a black face for me to see, and say bad things again. I CONTROL!!!! ( really going to slap her fucking face!!!) Den hubby keep telling his mum, father had settle and tell me to say sorry, so she carry Jovian and we went off to work. I tell hubby if not for FIL and Jovian i won't go and say sorry (I din even say sorry to my father or mother, need to say sorry to this fucker!!!!), i also tell hubby, i won't go early to see her face, I will wait for hubby after work and go together, I won't eat breakfast or dinner there, I rather eat maggie mee or treat it as diet! See her, I will vomit, no taste at all!!!
@#$#%#$%$#% i going depression again, my head very pain!!! WHY I HAD THIS KIND OF FUCKING MIL!!!!!!
Monday, May 5, 2008
C@$@#$ B@#$ MIL
Just quarrel with that fucking MIL, i control myself for very long, finally volcano blow up. She thought she got temper, and i dun have! I tolerate with her from i pregnant until now!
I pregnant she dun even cook any herbal soup or buy anythings for me to eat (ok never mind), lucky my mum got boil soup for me. Den i give birth to Jovian, she only come to hospital to see me once. I at home for confinement, she dun even come down or call to ask or buy anythings for me! (ok never mind). Jovian full month, hubby father, brother & wife come to my house to celebrate, only that Fuck (sorry, need to call her this, cos very angry now) did not come down! She is really a GANINA FUCK!!!! (I scold her again!)
My mum went to her house to explain for us, as MIL say she dun want to look after baby for us. When my mum go there, she keep smiling and also complain about us. after that she say I talk back to her. (I dun have!, only today!). She also behave very friendly to my mum ( she alway behave friendly in front, and say bad thing behind).
After the explanation, I told my hubby, your mum will surely scold us again on Mon, really she starting the scolding again. Now she keep saying i ask my mum to scare her, she say she won't scare. I explain to her, i ask mum to explain the wedding matter with her, but she keep saying my family matter! She say my brother , my mum bad words, so i can't tolerate anymore, i scolded back. I really angry at that point, that fucking keep saying bad things regarding my whole family, i told her, " if you dun look after, i bring Jovian back." and i open the door going to go off, but my hubby see me like that, he scared. I stand at the door side and continue quarrel with her!
After that, my hubby ask me to stop and he keep telling his mum to look after for us 1st. Ok, i stop, but she keep scolded, so i continue!!!! Den my hubby tell his mum, we going to late for work, need to go to work. so hubby carry Jovian to his fucking grandma there. She still keep saying she look after Jovian until today, tomorrow dun need to come!
We went off, my hubby scolded me too, he say why can't i control my temper! I say i control very long, she can say me but dun say my family! He say how now, nobody to look after for us!!!
Really is my fault to talk back to her???? she can always throw her temper to us den i can't throw back!!! I really very stress now, I dunno why i had this kind of MIL!!!! This is my fate????
Now i remind all of my friends, if no finance problem better to give infant care to look after your baby or hired a maid to look after, or dun had a baby, dun need to tolerate with MIL on this matter!!! Or if your MIL is like mine, better dun stay with them!!!! (Lucky i did not stay with them)
Complain until here, dunno how to settle my baby tomorrow. I ask my mum to look after her 1st, while i try to look out for nanny. really very stress, if not for finance problem, i will look after myself or put her to infant care. (at this stage is much expensive). haiz, now i working also keep thinking of how to settle..... think until i very blur, all my work i forgot what to do.....
I pregnant she dun even cook any herbal soup or buy anythings for me to eat (ok never mind), lucky my mum got boil soup for me. Den i give birth to Jovian, she only come to hospital to see me once. I at home for confinement, she dun even come down or call to ask or buy anythings for me! (ok never mind). Jovian full month, hubby father, brother & wife come to my house to celebrate, only that Fuck (sorry, need to call her this, cos very angry now) did not come down! She is really a GANINA FUCK!!!! (I scold her again!)
My mum went to her house to explain for us, as MIL say she dun want to look after baby for us. When my mum go there, she keep smiling and also complain about us. after that she say I talk back to her. (I dun have!, only today!). She also behave very friendly to my mum ( she alway behave friendly in front, and say bad thing behind).
After the explanation, I told my hubby, your mum will surely scold us again on Mon, really she starting the scolding again. Now she keep saying i ask my mum to scare her, she say she won't scare. I explain to her, i ask mum to explain the wedding matter with her, but she keep saying my family matter! She say my brother , my mum bad words, so i can't tolerate anymore, i scolded back. I really angry at that point, that fucking keep saying bad things regarding my whole family, i told her, " if you dun look after, i bring Jovian back." and i open the door going to go off, but my hubby see me like that, he scared. I stand at the door side and continue quarrel with her!
After that, my hubby ask me to stop and he keep telling his mum to look after for us 1st. Ok, i stop, but she keep scolded, so i continue!!!! Den my hubby tell his mum, we going to late for work, need to go to work. so hubby carry Jovian to his fucking grandma there. She still keep saying she look after Jovian until today, tomorrow dun need to come!
We went off, my hubby scolded me too, he say why can't i control my temper! I say i control very long, she can say me but dun say my family! He say how now, nobody to look after for us!!!
Really is my fault to talk back to her???? she can always throw her temper to us den i can't throw back!!! I really very stress now, I dunno why i had this kind of MIL!!!! This is my fate????
Now i remind all of my friends, if no finance problem better to give infant care to look after your baby or hired a maid to look after, or dun had a baby, dun need to tolerate with MIL on this matter!!! Or if your MIL is like mine, better dun stay with them!!!! (Lucky i did not stay with them)
Complain until here, dunno how to settle my baby tomorrow. I ask my mum to look after her 1st, while i try to look out for nanny. really very stress, if not for finance problem, i will look after myself or put her to infant care. (at this stage is much expensive). haiz, now i working also keep thinking of how to settle..... think until i very blur, all my work i forgot what to do.....
Saturday, May 3, 2008
Fxxx MIL
Today feel like scolding that fxxxing MIL, @$##%$%#@%@#!!!!!!
Her attitude come back again!! Yesterday after we went home, she call my hubby to tell him, she dun want to look after my baby again!!!! (@#@F$#$U$%#C$%K#$GANINA#$$%#$%C#@$#B#$@!!!!!!) Den my hubby come and scold me, why talk so loud to her mum!!!
Yesterday, my hubby brother ask MIL to ask me to ask my mother to go to his wedding. (The relationship between me and his brother wife is very close, we are cousins, until they ROM den i know her father is my father relative.) Last time, I got ask her before, she got invite my mum, as i am their daughter-in -law so they need to invite my mum, not the bride there. She keep saying Bride father need to invite my mum, i say NO, is your side invite, this is traditional matter. Den she keep thinking and saying, bride father dun like my mum so they dun invite my mum and say that bride father tell them this!!! THIS IS NOT TRUE!!!! I told her dun anyhow say my mum, bride side thought groom side going to invite my mum so they let them invite, dun let my mum waste money on both side. After that day I dun wants to talk too much to her. I ask my mum to call the bride father to confirm this matter, but he dun dare to ans my mum call!!!
Yesterday, MIL say hubby brother going to invite my mum, I say dun need, my mum dun wants to go any of the invite. Den she start to say the same things, say if bride side dun like my mum, den they will arrange my mum to sit far away from them. (if hubby brother did not ask her to invite my mum, i think she won't) I HAD ALREADY TOLERATE THAT TIME, DUN TALK BACK MUCH!!! BUT SHE KEEP THINKING THE SAME THINGS, SO I SAY HER AGAIN, I DID NOT SCOLD HER. I say smiling to her, den she also smile back. (cos i know her pattern, surely got something going to happen). I keep asking her dun alway think they dun like my mum!!!!! I try to control myself, dun blow up!!!! I tell hubby baby going to sleep, i wants to go home!!! I aslo did not talk much to my hubby cos he always help his mum!!!! I tolerate with this two F@$##$, I keep quite, but MIL think for awhile, she keep thinking i say her so she call and say dun look after baby!!! (She is the queen, cannot say her, she can say me. if not for my baby, i won't tolerate with her anymore!!!!)
My mum at my house so i tell my mum, (if not my mum need to go to my brother house to look after their baby, i surely let my mum look after until 18 months den put her to child care). My mum say dun angry, must talk nicely to her, must tolerate her 1st, My mum say she will go to her house to talk to her!!! (if not finance problem, i won't see her f#$$ face again!!!) Wedding is a happy issue, can let her make until so unhappy!!!
Write until here i still can't control my burning FIERY!!! going to scold her here cos can't scold infront of her!! @#$@%$%##$@$%#@%@#$%@#$##%!!!!!!!! (IF BABY GO TO CHILD CARE I WON'T LET THEM SEE HER AGAIN!!!!!!)
Her attitude come back again!! Yesterday after we went home, she call my hubby to tell him, she dun want to look after my baby again!!!! (@#@F$#$U$%#C$%K#$GANINA#$$%#$%C#@$#B#$@!!!!!!) Den my hubby come and scold me, why talk so loud to her mum!!!
Yesterday, my hubby brother ask MIL to ask me to ask my mother to go to his wedding. (The relationship between me and his brother wife is very close, we are cousins, until they ROM den i know her father is my father relative.) Last time, I got ask her before, she got invite my mum, as i am their daughter-in -law so they need to invite my mum, not the bride there. She keep saying Bride father need to invite my mum, i say NO, is your side invite, this is traditional matter. Den she keep thinking and saying, bride father dun like my mum so they dun invite my mum and say that bride father tell them this!!! THIS IS NOT TRUE!!!! I told her dun anyhow say my mum, bride side thought groom side going to invite my mum so they let them invite, dun let my mum waste money on both side. After that day I dun wants to talk too much to her. I ask my mum to call the bride father to confirm this matter, but he dun dare to ans my mum call!!!
Yesterday, MIL say hubby brother going to invite my mum, I say dun need, my mum dun wants to go any of the invite. Den she start to say the same things, say if bride side dun like my mum, den they will arrange my mum to sit far away from them. (if hubby brother did not ask her to invite my mum, i think she won't) I HAD ALREADY TOLERATE THAT TIME, DUN TALK BACK MUCH!!! BUT SHE KEEP THINKING THE SAME THINGS, SO I SAY HER AGAIN, I DID NOT SCOLD HER. I say smiling to her, den she also smile back. (cos i know her pattern, surely got something going to happen). I keep asking her dun alway think they dun like my mum!!!!! I try to control myself, dun blow up!!!! I tell hubby baby going to sleep, i wants to go home!!! I aslo did not talk much to my hubby cos he always help his mum!!!! I tolerate with this two F@$##$, I keep quite, but MIL think for awhile, she keep thinking i say her so she call and say dun look after baby!!! (She is the queen, cannot say her, she can say me. if not for my baby, i won't tolerate with her anymore!!!!)
My mum at my house so i tell my mum, (if not my mum need to go to my brother house to look after their baby, i surely let my mum look after until 18 months den put her to child care). My mum say dun angry, must talk nicely to her, must tolerate her 1st, My mum say she will go to her house to talk to her!!! (if not finance problem, i won't see her f#$$ face again!!!) Wedding is a happy issue, can let her make until so unhappy!!!
Write until here i still can't control my burning FIERY!!! going to scold her here cos can't scold infront of her!! @#$@%$%##$@$%#@%@#$%@#$##%!!!!!!!! (IF BABY GO TO CHILD CARE I WON'T LET THEM SEE HER AGAIN!!!!!!)
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Early in the morning
Early in the morning, gonna scolded by my mil again!
Every month, will gonna scolded by her! she scold us regarding yesterday matter. i haven scold her, she start to scold us wen we reach her hse this morning....
she scold my hubby din care for her, din call her to ask her leg better, can look aft baby, n say din tell her today cming to her hse for her to look aft baby! She tot she is his gf huh, need to comfort her n care for her! she always jealous that my hubby care for me n baby! she also got husband to care for her ma!!
she say many thing, n say until she is the greatest mum in the world!!! den say last time, she take care of 2 kids herself. she everytime ask me dun work n look aft baby. at the begining, i will tell her, if i din work n my hubby earning is not much, who will provide us money for baby n ous hse!
2day i very gd already, i din say any words or look at her, let her scold, i act like she talking rubbish!!! hehe... i will try to tolerate with her this yr! starting of nx yr, Jovian becm 18 months, i surely bring her to childcare centre. dun need see or hear her say anything. still got so long way to go.... but i will try my best to tolerate!!!
Every month, will gonna scolded by her! she scold us regarding yesterday matter. i haven scold her, she start to scold us wen we reach her hse this morning....
she scold my hubby din care for her, din call her to ask her leg better, can look aft baby, n say din tell her today cming to her hse for her to look aft baby! She tot she is his gf huh, need to comfort her n care for her! she always jealous that my hubby care for me n baby! she also got husband to care for her ma!!
she say many thing, n say until she is the greatest mum in the world!!! den say last time, she take care of 2 kids herself. she everytime ask me dun work n look aft baby. at the begining, i will tell her, if i din work n my hubby earning is not much, who will provide us money for baby n ous hse!
2day i very gd already, i din say any words or look at her, let her scold, i act like she talking rubbish!!! hehe... i will try to tolerate with her this yr! starting of nx yr, Jovian becm 18 months, i surely bring her to childcare centre. dun need see or hear her say anything. still got so long way to go.... but i will try my best to tolerate!!!
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Angry Day
So angry 2day, my mother-in-law call my hubby this morning to say that she cnt look aft my baby cos her leg pain! I tell my hubby y yesterday not pain and today pain, den last min call. (if yesterday nite call, i can arrange my mum to come my hse to look aft Jovian for me)I wake up so early and already prepared to go to her hse, lucky that i still haven wake my Jovian! So I quickly call my mum at 6.15am but my mum still haven on her hp. I reach my mum only at 7.30am den my mum need to settle her side 1st so i need to take half day leave to look aft Jovian 1st! (wasted my leave,cos not much leave left).
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